Chris Dread's Blog

Sometimes we have people that wants to meet us and spend time with us and by not feeling the same way or at least telling them we don't feel the same way, it creates a tension that's totally unnecessary .. It creates a liar in the person making excuses completely unnecessary to the task..People are so afraid to just say No! Or hey your not really my type or this is really a bad time .. Half the time when Jill  is trying to meet Jack, Jack is busy focusing on Jessica.. But Jack will pull Jill up some Hill leading her no where all because he couldn't tell her his mind was on someone else ..  Same Way Jack can be chasing Jill but Jill wants Jeff but is allowing Jack to feel there's a chance when there's not.. She just can't say the words .  That decision right there will build resentment .. Then Jill will tell everybody Jack is doing to much and he's too persistent, when she could have told him the Truth A lot sooner.. Or sometime we caught up in work and our lives and still string people along .. Something we all guilty doing a couple times in our lives .. We have to be brutally honest keeping the integrity high.. That atleast will make them respect you rather than resenting you from not being honest.. #chrisdread