Thursday, February 27, 2014

For every Art Form and Artist,there are Copy Cats ....Don't let the Copy Cat become more successful than the Artist. And never let the Copy Cat be remember for art they the didn't create .. @chrisDread

Sunday, February 23, 2014

The only way we can ever obtain world peace is if the Most Wealthy of us desire to maintain it...which they only make up under 5% of the worlds population ... So my concerns is how? How can we even begin to touch their source of compassion... Especially if it means to be MOST Wealthy that means to have a Great Deal of information.....Information that was taken and hidden from us in order for them to be in Control.. World peace would almost mean them having to give up much of their fortune,riches and land.. And even some of their business so that every one can have enough.. And although this is the way it should have been, I just don't see them doing that.. And then there's that baffling question of the Wealthy possibly feeling that the world would be in a better state had it been less populated... Maybe that's why they create wars or create ghettos or put, not only the wrong information, but the useless kind in our children's school books... Cuz all of that will kill you...nevertheless this is greed...one of the most deadly components of a human. @chrisdread 

Friday, February 21, 2014

All we really need is for our young men to see the older men Love women For-real....See them show true affection,be attentive and most important, remain in the home of their wife and kid ...and our younger women can use a lil positive influence by seeing the older women simply adore and uplift her man when he's trying his best ... And for both to practice being faithful to each other...and then we'll be ok... @chrisdread

Thursday, February 20, 2014

"A Bad Bitch" Such a relative term..so many variations depending on who's looking.. Is it her natural looks or made up looks, is it her body and face or just body or just face... Is it her career despite her looks, is it her Career combined with her looks, is it the quality of her clothes and heels? Or how expensive her "unbaweable" weave is? Is it her car or the quality of her home ..........Or does the quality of a "Bad Bitch have a direct relationship with the quality of the person who labeled her that ?...  Now to me, there it is right there..let's think.. Would it not make her a bad bitch if she looked really really good but she was broke? Let's just say she had ambition but got fired from her job and was having a rough time.... Would u consider her "Bad" then? Depends on who's judging ... What if she was very unattractive but had money out her ass and could buy anything she wanted except sex appeal.... Would she be "bad" then?? Depends on who's judging...so what makes a bad bitch ligit? I think The imagination of who's judging...... The only "bad bitch"to me are the ones who lives honest,to their fullest capacity..a woman who has figured out her passion and let's nothing stand in her way of obtaining it.. And one who demands fair treatment from everyone never Allowing herself to be hurt anymore than she has to just because this world named her "woman" rather than simply Human. @chrisdread

Monday, February 17, 2014

Part of being a man is knowing that you can't have sex with every girl that wants you... You gota know who you can live without having ..not all sexual doors you open,are easy to close...you gota recognize that not every woman that wants to have sex with you,just wanted sex,but uses sex to open those doors to you...you also don't wana over saturate Yaself sexually too early as a man and destroy the Enchantment of intimacy... It becomes very hard to please the woman you love after endless nights of Erotic exchanges...your body can handle but so much naturally b4 your mind takes over..there's an area where sexual desires are taken over by"reason"..also at the peak of maturity you realize never having sex with certain women keeps their appeal so high that u find a new appreciation for them and a great deal of self respect for Yaself.. Very powerful feeling.. Then some women your ok with just having a nice long meaningful kiss giving u a glimmer of the potential... Always appreciating what could have been... @chrisdread

Sunday, February 16, 2014

I love to speak to someone who's just as excited to speak to me as I am them... And if their more excited than me I hope to get there.. I love to spend time with someone who's just excited in seeing me as I am them.. And if their more excited than me, I hope to get there...the older you get you have a better evaluation of #Effort.. Such a underestimated term...the effort of time you put into people has to be carefully scrutinized because the effort you put in represents their value and vice versa ..Curving has become so popular amongst us leaving no one really sensing their value.. I prefer to Evaluate mines and move accordingly ... Nobody has the time to waste it all @chrisdread

Sunday, February 9, 2014

To all mothers with sons: "as a son there's so much things u keep from ur mom .., u don't want her to worry about u knowing she'll worry anyway... Crazy world for a young black man.. She knew that b4 you were even born..as a kid I've witnessed a lot of horrible things b4 the age of 6... With everything we still have so much endearment towards the world ..  But one of the things that took the Enchantment out of life was being up close and personal with the first murder I witnessed .. I knew him well he owned the store in my neighborhood .. Shot right in front of me.. I was 12 ..Nothing like the movies.. Not all this dramatic blood.. It was a lot scarier.. True pain..broad day light..there's so much u can say when ur clenching on to life but I remember clearly him asking for water.. He was so thirsty .. When my mom came home, I didn't want her to know or be worried but I couldn't hide it, it was cops everywhere .. They actually labeled me a material witness even though I didn't get to see the guys who did it.. Mug shots and days and hours of watching surveillance footage .. Situations like this a mother  hates for her son To go through .. But keep in mind.. This is nothing .. 85% of the things ya son will go thorough you'll never really know about it for ur own protection,mentally especially .. This is not to build a disconnect but too keep then Enchantment of the within ur mom.. The role reverses.. All the things they try to keep you from is what we try to keep from them years later..ladies if ur raising ur son alone, know this and respect it.. He is a man without a man.. He has to learn to world from his own eyes.. As a woman u can give him so much but u can't give him his manhood ..  His instincts has to be sharpened in the world.. Keep the friendship strong .. Allow him to look at u as an asset not a burden .. Give him a lil space trusting that he will always look to u for love and comfort.. There isn't much else u can do.. He will take care of u and protect u with his life ... BecuZ he is also your man .. But just know having a son.. You may never fully know the real him.. @chrisdread

For most artist, whether u can draw,write,sing,play an instrument Ect ..... Your best work comes from extreme happiness or extreme pain.. Anything in the middle produces ordinary results .. So as an artist , capitalize on the best and worst moments to produce work.. @chrisdread

Saturday, February 8, 2014

It's not always about going all the way ...sometimes it's nice to know that they just want you like crazy...get it wet, make it throb...and just be there together.. At this stage of my life it's one of those times where I feel extremely alive... Having something to look forward too keeps u loping forward... Then when it's right... For you both... Yo let it in.. #goodtimes @chrisdread

For a man it's a great feeling when one of ya Ex lovers is proud of you and happy she got that chance,that time with you... But a man with integrity can't Live knowing a woman regrets him, and is ashamed that she was involved with him.. That kills a man.  @chrisdread 

Monday, February 3, 2014

I've never once asked to be understood.. And I never will.. And since I think understanding Is the equal to love... That means I'll never ask someone to love me.. If u love me all on ya own tht means u somewhat understand me.. @chrisdread

Yearning that deeper relationship, that deeper connection with someone.... I really am!! But it is important to evaluate if u have the time and the space to support that connection.. Timing is so important .. Im a student of time and I'm at it's will.. I trust it and I know it has done well for my by treating it with such value.. All the efficient and sufficient love I have to give has a destination and a designation...so I pace myself and relax.. Enjoying every forward motion..  @chrisdread

It's important to Establish the courage to Deliver Painful Truth, and Equally important, is the Courage to Accept the truth as well... But As the Deliverer, be cautious as to how you  relay your message, and if your accepting, Be cautious as to How you respond..  @chrisdread

Sunday, February 2, 2014

As my friends and I walk through our early 30s we often talk about and romanticize who our final lover will be, or in smaller term,our wife.. A couple of us wana start on our 2nd or 3rd child..the generation of men I grew with, though lost, some of us are very level headed men.. Not that we are recognized as such, but we know what type of men we are. We share equal love and respect for our mothers... Maybe 8/10 of us ever had much interaction with our dads.. It's like we all know them but don't know them.. So there's was no male model to follow so we had to learn all Charisma from women and a lil innovation of our own..I congratulate my homeboys cuz we came from statistical challenges and still express full respect for women, we don't hurt ad rob innocent people, and we hold ambition very dear to our action ... Still never needed a pat on the back.. We lived aggressively and made mistakes.. We brushed eachother off and a lot of us had to say goodbye to eachother whether to death, dishonor or just a different in path choice .. Either way .. We have all maintained the best head on our shoulders as possible and that has a lot to do with our mothers.. But the biggest choice a man has to make is his wife.. It takes soooooo long to get her right.. Simply cuz so much of u can simply be the woman a man needs .. If I took u in a toy store and it had 1,000 toys there and told u that you can have anyone u want just make sure u only pic ONE... You'd have a hard time choosing too.. But this store called life doesn't close at 8pm... So Fellaz take ya time.. She is the most important decision you will ever have to make.. Cuz remember, the rule is "only one" ... @ chrisdread

Saturday, February 1, 2014

The girl that can have an amazing relationship with me whether it be platonic or sexual...  And can keep it to herself.. Is a girl that you value .. She just seems to have the same Ethic as you and or she understands your values of privacy .. No need to publicize what u and a man does unless u know ur position In his life and he knows his.. It appears to me when a guy or girl is fucking someone that they know a lot of other people want.. U think telling ya best friend or ya sister or cousin or brother is harmless... Until u see  y'all business is all out there and now u can't take it back ...a person that can value the integrity of another is honorable ... There's people that would disagree cuz people that move like this are often confused with people tht have something to hide.. But with all due respect ... No one ever said wanting ya business under wraps means your a creep #easeup... If a guy or a girl sending u lil sexy pics just cuz they  value you and they wana please you and tease you.. You don't have to show ya homegirl or homeboy the pic and brag about it... When u had an amazing sexy night with someone and  ya friend ask u what u did and u gave them all the nasty dirty details ... When that friend goes .. "So who was it".. U don't have to immediately show them a pic or call they name if y'all not in a relationship, you protect that person. I have strong respect for people that I can enjoy .. The only person ima really broadcast though is my girl cuz the everything Is expected ... @chrisdread