A man, especially a black man can always find the right one.. There's simply just a huge population of good women around us.. Even the bad ones are good.. She's responding to you .. How do bad girls turn good.. "It was Him" how do good girls turn bad "it was him"now I'm not omitting self responsibility of character.. Every woman should know when she's being to much of a issue and when she's being too nice..but she will be responsive to you based on the Man you choose to be and related to all possible characteristics of things she's naturally attracted to .. Same with men... Yes there's a period where no matter what she does some men will still be wayward,untruthful and unfaithful .. Yet there's is a particular woman he's in course of running into that will ultimately change his perception on women and himself .. The time frame in ya life is very important to consider .. Some of us try to do things to mature and have no or little experience in ..  And some of us choose to be too childish at the height of our mature stage... @chrisdread

Problem with being single for most of ya life is... Everyone is waiting to see who the hell it is you Gona choose as a wife and who ever she is,My poor baby is Gona come under so much scrutiny ... I see glimmers of it already.. When women hear you used to deal with someone, no matter how gorgeous or humble or smart she is, they be ready to shut her down and talk shit about her just cuz she ain't her... Thats how some women are tho Naaa mean.. No one  ever good enough for the guy they didn't end up with.. It's not that ur inadequate.. It's that for some men it wasn't  their time .. How u know some of us don't rely on our instinct more,to know when it's best for commitment rather than giving a girl what she wants out of the lust of her own mind and body...then their Gona attack her character and prolly try to break me down .. And when it doesn't work.. When we find a way to live in our own world and still exist amongst y'all ... Only then you know why men take their time and choose wisely not just the woman,but choose the wisest time for himself to deter lust and to make sure where u are is where you'll stay.. @chrisdread

"Sometimes the Biggest things you love about someone are all the Little things about them" @chrisdread 

"Excuse me miss I don't mean to bother you, idk if you remember me but I just wanted to give you a compliment...... Not on the fact that your gorgeous and u have a nice body.. But that ur still the same sweet girl I used to know in highschool .. The girl that was skinny and no nigga would give a chance.. When you had pimples and a lot of space In ya pants..now u grew up so nice.. U blossomed.. As soon as u walked in I noticed you, we all did.... My man taped me and said"DAMN I FUCKED THAT UP" he said he just wanted to fuck.. He ran into you 6 months ago .. He walked up to u in a party and he didn't remember u... He said u asked him"you don't remember me? Vivian from math class when we had Mr Smith"he told me he took u out once But she was too deep for me.. He said "She  asked me all these interesting questions about myself that girls like her don't usually ask.." That shows me ur the same.. U ain't into the game or the one word replies just cuz u got a pack of guys AftA u. .. I just wana say your beautiful not just outside but inside aswell.. U don't act like ya friends ova there... Idk what it is about some black woman that when they get a fatt as they feel entitled .. I don't know who the fuck they think they are... She smiled took my hand and said.. Can u walk me to my car..😏😏😏 hell yea.. @chrisdread

I see you Fellaz .. Some of u are great guys .. But we been torn down by the great lies... Some of you just wana be accurate efficient men... The,Say what u mean and mean what u say type of guy.. It's never in ya intentions to see ya girl Sigh or make ya kid cry.. Shit I see you try.. Some of u just wana be comfortable enough to buy ya girl anything she deserves.. Especially AftA she been with u when u ain't have shit... Yet no one wants to hear how hard it is on you.. Your a black Man,U supposed to be strong .. All along it seems like all our women wana do is remind u of how they been a victim.... Even though some other nigha hurt them when u wasn't even with them.. Ain't it typical.. Yet critical .. No one is here uplifting you but trust me I'll always try .. Till the day I die.. And why? Because if society wont remind you, if no one stands behind you, if our own queens undermined you...we will react to neglect, become a wreck and never gain self respect... We are kings I can't stress this enough.. My eyes are open I know it's tough..it's been rough on u and me too but if we stand together we'll see it through..#BrotherhoodOfTheWolf @chrisdread  

Sexual transitions... (Then to now)... Doggy style to us as a kid was ideal.. So impersonal .. Nothing intimate about it at all.. When u was young u thought that's what it was all about ... Pound pound pound, and then see what happens .. "Maybe she'll cum... Atleast that's what they call it .. I know I will shit..." Young men don't know about that body to body .. Or about how important flexibility is in allowing u To get closer to her... Open up baby...Or when she was young.. She got on top just to do it.. She had no idea what being the pilot was like... Flying a plane was a game.. She never knew how much control she had... Oh and 4play was a task.."damn we really have to do all that??" Damn,No motivation .. Eating the box???? What are u crazy .. They ain't do that where we from..... And hear her!!..U want me to suck what???.. Yea that was taboo...I mean I had the endurance but no method......Till u fall inlove that is ... Sex start acting different... Fears leave.. Boundaries crumble.. Good sex made u humble.. Made u a student of a school that never seems to end.. Lover or friend, with no need to pretend.. Grown men performs as if there's a panel of judges in the room... He listens to your body.. He knows now u speak ur own language ... Patience is the translator There's voice echoing out of her that he couldn't hear b4..it's not about what sign u are or how fine u are... Time teaches...methodologies of   Pleaser varies in every measure..that climax.... A treasure.. You can be whoever u wana be .. That person that can't live without sex or a person who can.. But no woman ever forgets tht man..

Sitting here thinking of how ambiguous I am about success... Blessed with all these talents yet riddled with fears.. For instance I literally have sure plans on expressing my artistic side yet I know where it will lead me... Once u become a major social figure u can't turn Around and say"l don't wana do this anymore" I've been in the music industry I know what it's like... Guy or girl every one wants to fuck u and if u don fuck back u hit a ceiling ... U can't go no further.. So when I look to people like Mos Def,Talib Kwelil Lauren hill people like them who is more talented than EVERYONE .. Yet lives low key cuz it's  some part of them selves they won't sell like the rest(some of y'all know what I'm saying) I have enough stored literature to write 3 books.. I sit here and write philosophy, pleasure principals, sociological theory.. I even write comedy believe it or not.... I'm just too shy to perform and I'm more bound to a private life.. I wana live in the mountains and make babies write books smoke weed and have sex often.. And I want my wife to have a wife...something to please her and keep her entertained wile I'm In my feelings....That's really it..grow my own tea.. Shit like that.. I've held back soooo much but I know why.. So don't observe people and be puzzled as to why they live how they live.. They know why.. Survival is key .. That along with ur legacy ..some of us rather teach our kids to be what we couldn't .. But they have their own choice to make.. I make mines all day ..from Singing,dancing,sports writing,acting,cooking... I could of been anywhere in the world doing anything else but I LITERALLY chose to be here where I am now .. And I put that in my hands.. You can do whatever the hell it is u want and if u got the balls to do it ... DO THAT SHIT WITH NO FEAR AND KNOCK EVERY MUTHA FUCKA DOWN IN YA WAY...But if u don't.. Take ya time and see what happens, everyone is judging u anyway right?... But when judging Yaself finally makes u sick to ya stomach that's when u face ya darkest hour .. Believe me I've been there.. This is the time guys.. The days where the climax and tension is so high.. This is the time to give it all u got.. Just to see for Yaself what's really in you .. @chrisdread

"There's certain things you'll never forget about a woman... The feeling of excitement knowing she's on her way over...pacing up and down the house thinking of "how can I make her feel different tonight... How can I make her believe she's different..." Is there any degree of body or verbal language that can describes what she means to me.. That flutter of Frustration people get in their lower belly when they try to conceptualize God....She a Goddess.." 

"I live to experience what I desires me what I can imagine.. That is why It's not having Fantasies I've never done.. It's to always create knew ones"@chrisdread

Some Young Ladies Experienced Grown Woman Scenarios way too soon... Now they can't turn back....it takes a certain maturity level to heal a broken heart, a broken body and some of y'all are broken too early... Nothing makes u happy now, nothing impresses you... Some of U are too young to realize u had sex with several men around you, now u wana erase ya social sites cuz u don't like the way people hound you.... You give ya body up too much their bound to.. Some of u are too young to have nothing to look forward too.. Step back, look in the mirror there's more to you..@chrisdread