"Get over you for what? I love you.. Now if you choose to move on that's your business.. But I'm happy with feeling the way I do about you.. We didn't work out but it was an absolutely positive experience... I do me,but nothing feels as good as you yet...so leave me be and let me Honor you the way you deserve" ........ The nigga just walks off and she was standing there with her hand over her chest as if she was saying "what the fuck" .. She smiles and turns around hand walks in the other direction smiling ... @chrisdread

Embrace the idea that a man can love you as much as you claim you want him to without feeling he's annoying you once he does all the things you wanted, and instead of appreciating it, you go run AftA the kind if man that pays you no attention and rather runs the street.. Embrace the idea that you will find a man that will actually not need to have sex with someone else besides you because if you go around saying things out loud like "all men cheat just don't let me find out" then that's what they will do .. You cannot dream of a perfect life with a man wile your going around supporting the Ideals of your broken hearted mothers and grandmothers and Aunts..These things y'all say are taught to you from bitterness of others .,you where not born with those ideas.. Their lives and experiences does not have to be yours, also personal experiences of your own based off your fucked up decisions in the men you chose..Yes, finding a devoted faithful lover is hard but it becomes harder when u accept and live by the principals of broken hearted women that came before you ..you ladies have to realize that there's also satisfaction in a mans simplicities, he doesn't have to be complicated to be pleasurable .. Y'all know what I'm saying .. @chrisdread

The ones u never get over are the ones that was so good to you when you were so Bad... Then when u finally become good, you become lonely ... You never get over a good person ..  And those bad feelings u feel when you know you missed out on a good thing is completely necessary for you to learn how to appreciate and hold on strong to the good people to come ... I never try to school people I just wana share all my hearts experiences... @chrisdread

Two good friends Eric and Kevin was having a drink .. Kevin asked Eric  .. "So how you and that girl you met a couple months back doing?" He replies"we don't speak anymore" Kevin asked why.. Eric said "I don't even know bro, I really liked her, and everytime I did lil nice things for her she'd always say.... I never met a guy that does these kinds of things ... Kevin asked"so what kinds of things would you do" Eric said" I'd cook for her, rub her feet when she came over with warm oil .. I would take her by her hand and Dance with her in the living room , and one time I even seen a tear in her eye wile we danced . I thought she was really into me, it just seemed different you know, I tired my best especially since I got laid off, I tried to always be creative...but she just kinda slipped away...we used to laugh constantly, and talk for hours, and not just any talk, deep intellectual convo..  Kevin replies to him" damn I'm sorry to hear that...so what is she doing now" Eric says" I think she's back with her Ex, that nigga that hustle, cheats on her and beats her ass.....Kevin says "ha, makes sense, they'll call that love over what it should really feel like..plus that money he spends on her she'll calls security and not bribery.." Eric goes" ahh! What times does the game come on.." @chrisdread

This The Era of the "Screen Shot" ... Now u gota be extra cautious as to what either meaningful things you text people or what pictures u send people .. Cuz folks now a days is some exploitive nasty ass mutha fuckaz... Evidence and Proof is what people like now.. Be careful.. I follow my lessons too yo trust .. But ima man, I say or do nothing in shame... But hey that's what u gota go through now.. Oh and them lines people drop when they say " oh I don't talk my business" they a damn liar..  Always have been always will.. Make sure what u show and give people is something u can live with had it ever got out.. @chrisdread

Seconds,Minutes,Hours, Days,Weeks,Months,Years seem to be flying by..  Yet I'm not concerned with Where it all Ends.. I'm smart enough to know time has no ending.. It's always pending .. The value of time does not reside in where it begins it ends .. But how well we used our time in between.. What we chose to dedicate our time to or who we chose to give our time .. Making more meaningful decisions day by day ...  I have narrowed down what stimulates my use of time most... LOVE/PLEASURE/WORK/CHALLENGES ... Love of family, Friends and the most meaningful love I've experienced... Our children.. Pleasure, all things that make me feel good mentally and physically.. Music,food Ect..Especially Sex.{I can't stress this enough}... Work... And objective, a purpose.. All humans have a desire to work and complete a task.. To be useful.. And Challenges... I love to be challenged.. I love competing when friendly .. That's how u grade your value..  @chrisdread 

To my Homies.. Every one knows I'm someone that loves being single and truly cherishes the feeling of being able to do anything I want,go anywhere I want, say anything I want without bearing the weight of guilt.. But I just wana say to my homies, I'm no smarter than any of you, I'm no better than any of you, all I wana do is share this feeling.. Finding a great girl you can trust NOW A DAYS... Is soo much harder than ever.. The things I hear women say and what they post on social sites is unheard of.. Things u would never see 10-15 years ago.. Most of them have completely lost their fucking mind.. We are not prepared for them to act like Horish,money crazed men.. We don't know how to handle the modern girl.. How we operate with women is to initially believe what comes out they mouthiest truth  because all our lives we were told we were dogs and they are Angels.. So when a women says"I'm only fucking u" now a days, half the time that's a lie...Women 30 and over still have a lot of old ideals and some younger women think and live old fashion but very few.. The majority of women now will date several men at a time and will put money as their focus rather than love and what's to blame for this is a number of things.. Choosing a wife has become, well for men, as hard as it has always been for women to choose a Husband..all kinds of advice has been thrown at women to improve their love life and idk what has been affective for them but..... To my niggaz out here, if u reading this all I want to say is, if you find a woman now a days who's good to you and appears to not have these modern girl tricks up her sleeve, Please Please hold on to her.. Don't make the mistakes I did and a lot of us do by thinking that cause you meet so much women on a daily basis that you have time.. Im beginning to realize that that window is limited .. If you get the opportunity to meet a woman That weakens your spine, No matter her past or no matter yours, accept her like she would accept you.. Love that woman .. Become her greatest friend.. Learn from eachother, find a way to block out society for a minute.. Make sure she's a woman that does not lust over celebrity relationships cause those women are the most destructive and complete air heads ..make sure she's kind.. Make sure you protect her, make sure she learns from you, don't demand her, let your love subdue her will... Every playboy/womanizer/dog/hoe or whatever other Lable women give men, Heart is empty, men just don't tell u that .. It's empty and broken and he would love To love one girl,he's just good and loving many.. Because they all seem to need you..take my word for it yo... If you find that spine tingly love please keep it.. I've lost it countless times and getting it back either never feels the same or it just doesn't come back.. There's no shortcuts ... I know that now.. Your either Gona give up your perfect single life where u had countless bad chicks at arms reach having fun With that and fulfilling all ya fantasies, or you Gona meet that girl that you KNOW is different from all else and say good bye to variety and hello to Commitment.. Only commit if u have the strength .. If not don't hurt her.. I'm am still in the lesson of my own mind, I am not a hypocrite ..I will be my own perfect teacher.. @chrisdread

I talk about relationships so much cuz I had so much relations..  Anyone that has so much experience doing something  and they don't learn lessons from it enough to analyze and give back is an introvert .. We are all out here living,experiencing things at an accelerated rate.. We are all Sociologist.. Just not all of us need to express our experiences Intellectually..but I do. @chrisdread  

It's just that feeling is missing .. We are becoming incapable of missing that person as much as we once did.. It's like we are becoming more independent as lovers.. I wana miss someone to the point of frustration and I just can't seem to feel frustrated about anything anymore ..I mean come on y'all .. Sooo much of u are in these half ass ,fake, dishonest mild relationships and by entering those, your fucking up the enchantment of what a real commitment is.. And don't point the finger at me and say it's me, or you, or men, or women.. It's more than that .. It's these times, it's technology turning us cold,it's this fucking city !! Its the constant chant of money, it's the music, it's reality tv,it's social sites.. Look around yo.. And No one is addressing these things because they scared us out of a revolutionary stand.. Anybody say anything real on a major scale ends up dead..we are sinking and as a parent,uncle and God father of 7.. I'm really feeling it for them mainly..like how the hell do we get our lives back...@chrisdread

I'm not the type of man that will tell a woman something I didn't mean just to get what I want.. Let her feelings linger and grow based off of false pretense,then when there's a downfall of some sort I slap her with the Okie Doke... No no that's not me.. I'm the nigga telling u exactly what I DONT want and what you CANT HAVE from me.. You measure out how bad u want me after I tell you all the things that I don't see in you or Us happening ..now the only thing that can occur is that I stick to the grain and actually do exactly what I said I would or the things I didn't see possible with us, getting to know u and loving u enough maybe would change that. But again I am not here to confuse nor hurt a woman by any means but somehow this is still the classification of a womanizer.. Every woman claims she wants honesty but the truth is y'all are so annoyed and offended and challenged by it tht even when u know he did the fair thing... Not getting what u want in the end enables YOU to be the unfair one lying to Yaself only to convince Yaself that you didn't do this to Yaself .. Which u know u did..Cause aslong as a woman has a man to blame, she can move on.. @ chrisdread

So let me get this straight  ladies...... Men LITERALLY ask to take YOU  out, KNOWING they ain't have no money on them that day... But got dressed attempted to smell all good then came to pick you up and didn't mention he ain't have money until something had to be payed for????!!!! Because when you have a lot of homegirls and all you hear is testimonies, the stories y'all tell me is unbelievable ...like why even put Yaself in that position if you ain't have money that day .. ESPECIALLY  In today's society where women make bread and will offer to take you out if u ain't have it.. Why set Yaself up for that especially knowing black women will be texting her best friend the whole time talking bad about u now u know as the broke nigha smh I can't.. I'd stay home if that's the case @chrisdread