Most of the time when anything has went wrong in my life it was in the result of lack of Confidence or, Stepping away from the Truth ...

Be Confident and True #chrisdread

"Reasons" do exist .. "So let's make a Deal .. I won't call my Excuses, Reasons .... And you don't call my Reasons,Excuses.." Or is there this thing called "Reasonable Excuses" or "Excusable Reason"#chrisdread

You wana see the "mans" image of a wife .. Just look at the average male scenario ... Look at is Wife/Wifey vs his Side Chick/Chicks..

Notice the difference ... His wife mirrors all the characteristics of a life partner.. Loving and kind.. Stability, Nurturer, Supportive, Patient, Understanding, Simple, Pleasing, Affectionate... Ect Ect ... At least that's what a conscious man would want in a wife ..

   Now looking at the Woman on the side without being to critical of her ..  I mean after all .. She can be a good woman too.. Idk why society always attacks her .. She can be as innocent as ever,with the intention to fully be the best woman she can be with whatever this man has presented to her .. She could have been lied too or fooled by him based on how strong his desire is to obtain her ...Or the side Woman can be very conscious of her decision, she can feel either guilty or not but her intention is to enjoy the moment despite the damage it may cause herself ,him or his wife .. The side woman can be the over sexed , over sexual, lusty kinky kind of woman , targeted particularly to provide the sexual fantasies and to suffice the sexual appetite of some men who don't find total satisfaction in one woman.. Or she can be the shy quiet type where the man finds some sort of sexually attraction to her conservative or innocent nature, Or she may provide him with something deeper that his wife lacks , maybe a spiritual or intellectual connection... Now does this make him a dog? Well make no mistake.. It is completely normal for any human, male or female to desire more than one person sexually .. What makes it bad is when you continue to live that lifestyle after you make a promise of commitment .. So in that case one can say yes.. 

     But, looking at his wife, Notice that type of woman is usually very similar .. The structure of her is usually very universal ..With the conscious man she's usually very neat, safe and secure.. Just that overall prime choice in a good woman .. This says to me..it's not that we don't know what a wife resembles or what the structure of a "good woman" is... It is simply about our sexual desires and having control over them that will determine a healthy relationship experience and or marriage for a man .. Ask yourself.. As a woman , if your man could guarantee he kept his penis in his pants 100 percent of the time and would never cheat on you.. That would cover about over 50 percent confidence you'd have in being happy with this man .. Because if you ask most women who's been hurt or had bad experiences with men it's due to him not being able to keep his penis to himself . Other things like finance and learning from him and Protection and being a good father is all circumstantial.. But what hurts sooo much of our women and breaks hearts stems from cheating .. And for a man,  when really asking himself if most of his bad experience in relationships,caused by him was due to other women or him not being faithful and honest with his woman. He would tell you yes ..

      So I think to myself .. As I move forward in life I realize, for us , If We conquer sex, We conquer a happier love life .. We have to  know best when we are suited to make that eternal promise to a Woman and when we are strong enough to keep it .. Until then, no matter what she say, no matter how much she calls you immature for not settling down(as if that even makes her mature for saying) no matter how much she pressures you and acts like a brat.. No matter how much she attacks your man hood. Stand firm and only commit FOR YOU!! Not for her or for some idea. You have to really want it bro . #chrisdread

I'm into the redefining of the woman .. I'm into her transition of becoming an economic power and the leading middle class .. Even when she's the head of the home... We have to really question the title or present day definition of men and women .. After all , now a days you see more and more of how awful our knowledge is of this world and our people .. Everyday we learning something new that was stolen from us .. And who's doctrine did we follow ?? The European doctrine. One filled with lies,deception and stupidity .. If they can take our knowledge of our food and diet away from us what makes u think they not gona take the true knowledge of who or what women really are on this planet .. We have to now really consider that everything we think we know we really don't .. Just look at the state of the world .. Technology is so much more vast now that they can't stop the spread of info and the lies are turning around .. Now is the time especially for black men and women to band together .. They put us against each other and broke our families down, broke down the generations ..

                         Nevertheless.. The worst thing that could have ever happen to the black family is Feminism.. A feminist is a the Bain of society no different from a lil gang banger .. Feminism is just another approach to destroy the black home and to further downgrade the presence of a man .. Stripping him of his right and need to protect his woman and children.. Disabling the coalition between men and women ..  Feminism was not a black woman's idea. It was the idea of white women trying to gain political social economic power from the white men who run this country. When you force that on black women, now they fight, not against white men who oppressed her, her man and children, but now she's fighting the black man and we have never controlled anything not even her. And when a woman takes a feminist stand .. Her companion becomes the white man whether she knows it or not cuz she benefits from the system they create to keep a black man down..  Feminism promotes loneliness, lesbianism, anger, bitterness.. So wile in full support of the "woman" ..  Feminism not so much because of how harmful it is and yeah I don't even know it.. We need to respect the balance .. Because together all things are possible .. Black Men and women can not be separate or we'll be slaves forever ..you see I'm not into marching .. Not into protesting .. That does nothing .. I rather put my energy into a useful rhetorical that speaks on the importance of the coalition of black men and women and speaking aggressively about love because love is not just this idea of a feeling that makes you feel good. The concept of love is just as powerful as God. We need love in our hearts just as much as we need God because God or the entity that we referred to as God only wants us to love,that's it #chrisdread

  I think every human being in this world should experience someone Honoring them.. Someone loving them more than anything in the world .. Imagine going through life never feeling like a person who has been loved by someone more than anything in this world .. Not having that I think, is missing a crucial piece in then experience of being a human being .. And although at times we take someone's love for granted, it's such an enchanting feeling to know someone puts you above all..  Just imagine for a second, never experiencing love at all .. We'd probably crumble .. Imagine a person who's been homeless for the majority of their life.. Imagine not experiencing true friendship, or intimacy, the love of family and children .. It's an acutely frightening concept .. (Not saying it's this way for all homeless) 

    "Everyone loving everyone just seems to be impossible in this Realm.. We'd probably ascend to heaven all at once"

   And then the polarity of it.. What if Not having love is to know True Peace .. After all love is a connectivity .. To not be connected in a sense is Peace.. Once you experience love, hate can now be created in the mind because it needs its opposition to exist in order for us to be aware of it .. If it's always warm outside and cold didn't exist, we'd probably won't go around using the word "warm" to describe the weather. But the fact that we live in a world set up to have us work with more differences than constants,It's what makes life exciting and that gives us life.. To work for something.. But the 1 thing that remains free and easy to achieve almost effortlessly is the one thing people need the most but don't have enough of.. "Love" #chrisdread

It's one thing to "Love" someone. It feels really nice, but Loving some one doesn't mean you'll always want or need  them around .. It's an entirely different thing when they're "Lovable"  We can achieve the feeling of Love for someone and be content with void .. But when they're Lovable, you'd always want them around.. #chrisdread 

I think Any person that you love or has value deserves a second chance.......

    I just don't believe in a third. #chrisdread 

Never forget. Not always when you see them stunting mean they have more money than you ..... They may just have less Responsibilities..Lust slowly and wisely .#chrisdread