Woman are dominant in society, have the most focus in accomplishing goals on average, And y'all make up most of the middle class worker and still have the great responsibility on a average,  of keeping the house in order... If you guys minds, Hearts and Bodies aren't healthy then society itself isn't healthy... There's is something Happening between our women and the men that isn't clicking... Some where along the line the man can't recognize that he now has to also be the voice and the touch of comfort when she comes home ...

People are so perplexed on why people cheat or what the factors are behind it ... I think it's simply "when certain Peoples sexual desires are stronger than their will to commit" .. Nothing more. And it doesn't have to be associated with tyranny towards you or something your lacking  .. That's why a lot of people becomes confused when the person that's cheating says they love you or their in love with you and their sorry ... I think a person can be in love with you and accomplish cheating because sex isn't love .. I mean, they correspond but they come from different places .. But loving someone doesn't excuse the malpractice of commitment it's just not that hard to understand .. And understanding it helps you recognize it in a person a lot better than not.. #chrisdread

You have to ask yaself if your satisfied with them as a person ... Strip all other ideas away and imagine them in your mind, LOOK AT Them and ask yaself does this person make me happy ... Imagine y'all living in the woods no phone no major technology no money no gold no diamond.... Nothing, just y'all ..  Like are u satisfied with them that way ? Ask that first 

NOW think about all the economic factors that contribute to Divorce, Separation and Adultery .. Factors that  involve being displeased when a person isn't the strongest financially or down on their luck... What gets you through that ? What makes you stay and not jump ship to another person that suits your ideas on what stability is .. It's always gona be someone that can present a better Life.. Where does that end? And maybe in this generation and moving forward it doesn't end.. We are in the times where Financial Stability or Structural Stability is over shadowing true love..  

We have to fall in love with the Human being again .. We been watching movies for years, and they always show us in the future, technology will kill our souls and compassion for one another and I see it happening now in slow motion ..   

We have to fall in love like we're teenagers again you know? When having nothing obviously was due to our age but the youthful idea of love should remain the same.. How could we be so madly in love at 18 and 19 with no real experience ? That's Simple ...Because all we was supposed to do was love in the first place .. So when u get older you should love a person the same way But ask yaself "Am I  assured that i have someone that has my best interest at heart.. Am I pleased, am I protected,am I secure." So if your lover falls on hard times, after you analyze your PURE feelings and interest, that will give u a better idea if u can wait around for them to fix their life and set up something where y'all can better improve the quality of life together.!!! You don't leave them before you've asked yaself about the Purity of interest .. It's like we don't love each other for the person that we are any more, only for what they can provide.. And Provisions is not love .. If we are always looking at what another person can bring then what is satisfaction or what is the use of love? #chrisdread

You'd go around thinking certain things about you were flaws not knowing it was the thing I thought was most sexy about you ... #chrisdread 

One things for sure .. When a woman truly truly loves you .. She'll never leave and she won't give her body to another man unless SHES SURE your long gone and all doors are closed .. She only does that because she not only understands men, but she knows what being a woman means to herself .. 

 Does that woman still exist ?? Of course she does ... Is she increasingly running scarce ?? Of course she is..just look out around you.. I hope men understand that, and start treating the woman that take them serious, a lot better and with honor .. That woman is a specialist, she's rare and she'needs love... And to all the "Girls just wana have fun" type.. Keep having fun. Your choice. But is there men that won't leave and won't give his body to another woman if he truly truly loves you? Of course he exist ... Is he running scarce ?? He always has. #chrisdread

You can't find the Depth of someone if there just not that deep....I wana drown in the person but It's  hard  to drown in shallow waters .. #chrisdread

You Ever was starving and u the looked in the fridge and you ain't see nothing you wanted to eat so you close it......then 2 mins later you walk right back to the fridge and look in the fridge and STILL ain't see something you wanted to eat.. Same damn result...

             Well we do the same thing with people and situations... You want someone so bad and even after you looked inside them and I mean deep inside them and you ain't find nothing so you close the door ...but strangely enough .. You go right back and open the door looking for something KNOWING it's nothing inside expecting different results .. It's insane #chrisdread

God bless those of you making a living off of you Talents and Hobbies and not going into work for some prick who's daddy handed them down the company and you know your smarter than them and more skilled .. That is torture and quite frankly the most horrifying situation for a person like me..... When you can take your talents, skill or hobbies and make a living and not have to fill out 30 applications or send in 30 resumes, get dressed, go to the job interview, fill out 2 more application when u get there Then fill out the part of the application that's ask you for job history, KNOWING they already have ya resume, then have to sit there with a dick head who just interviewed 10 people and he/she is already aggraveted and wants to leave ... 

     I'm so inspired but struggling artist who believe beyond a Dollar or a paycheck that they not Gona wake up every day and be a slave for someone else for years and years ..  I admire you deeply..#chrisdread

Time is the most valuable asset in this world and Love is the sole purpose of the Human experience .. The people who you'll have the hardest time loving is people who do not respect the time you give them and people who don't define love the way you do .. Time on this earth has shown me that .. I had to let go a lot of people I love because the things that they value didn't only begin to change but the things they love and gave their time to was harmful to them .. When someone doesn't respect the time you devoted to them, and they see love differently from you, you'll start to feel something inside telling u something is wrong .. You must act. When people start to value things like money and putting lust before love that's a problem for me personally.. Nothing wrong with lust but you have to know when the line is drawn ... 

      It's funny cuz a lot of people show me so much love and approach me every day in the street where ever I am and literally can tell me word for word some of my literature and it blows me away and people reach out to me from all over the world and build with me and ask my advice on things and I spend literally hours talking to people about their life and their issues and helping to reason with them .. And I devote that time freely because I simply love this human experience and I'm dedicated to it and overwhelmed that strangers can really look out at u and see value in you that people that you actually know, don't... I don't put in public display all the messages and email Ect I get from literally hundreds of people .. Then people I know always say ... "All that time u spend writing why u just don't write a book and MAKE MONEY FROM IT.." And it's like people get really disgusted with me cuz I don't take this skill and make money from it .. Everything is money to people .....What happened to love ? Then when I say this, or when a lot of people enjoy my writing they say I seek attention and I'm a fake philosopher Ect but the funny thing is, if I decide to make this a business and make money they'll hop on ya dick again and 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 for u but to do it out of love they hate u for it and down you and talk about you  like a dog.. Telling people "he don't practice what he preach" and all them women that like his writing he prolly fucking"  I mean I hear it all .. But what happened to love ? This brings me back to time .. Utilizing my time to grow and learn love better will help me narrow down my felid of professionalism.. But until then I'm gona continue to love ..  People like to compare me to Rob Hill and all these other writers and motivational speakers who are in fact great .. But we are all different .. "Do what Rob Hill did" do I look like Rob Hill ???? Smh every body loves to watch people who made it and feels that's the best way to make it but nobody looks inside themselves anymore and that what my Heavenly Father told me to do .. Look within not without.. #chrisdread 

Even at my age now I'm still fascinated at the fact that, I can hear myself speaking in my head .. Like right now even as u reading this do u realize  that u can hear ya self talking ? ....Like what is that ?no speakers no voice box vibrating to make sound .. 

   That proves that this body is just a body. You know, you can touch it or be touched, u can feel it and hear it move, but your a pilot from thought .. You tell yaself to move and you move.. Something else though is going on inside...and when we die.. Where does this voice go? Will we ever her ourselves again? Something mystical beyond explanation is apart of being alive .. Yea they call it spirit or soul but 99 percent of us will never have an interaction with a soul in this physical world of touch.. Like even as I'm writing in hearing everything I'm saying .. I just wana know how that works.. A bullet or a knife or disease can't kill that voice, it's abstract .. We still gota be here somewhere .. Are we reused ?? Somemay say .. But for what or when ...    Just thinking about it stirs me inside .. Just miss all my fallen souljas.. And pops rest in peace .. Talk to me bro #chrisdread 

"They used to make break up then make up through music... Sending one another a song describing their feelings .. It was they way they said sorry, and I'm thinking of you.. But they broke up too much times and ran out of music for each apology .. Now they're dancing with someone else.. " #chrisdread

Sometimes, on the outside, they look the part .. But when u open them up and look inside, there's nothing there. You can use the outside as the basis of attraction .. But don't put no feelings in it until you check inside .. Always check inside. You wouldn't believe how much gorgeous empty people surrounds us..#chrisdread

All through my 20s all we did was live fast .. Chasing money .. Money money money ...Fast cash was the topic.. And we got a lot of it .. Spent it, went crazy .. I want something better than that now.. People  now a days still talking bout money ? Like it just became new to you? I want more than money now.. I want beyond money .. Money is an old subject .. And the people that constantly talking about it  still don't know real money.. But they focused on a persona that they will never achieve  .. I'm looking beyond money .. That Money chase is what will damage ur dreams . Take it from me..

But I get it.. Currency is the system we live under.. The have and there nots.. I hate to see a "Have Not" think or pretend they "Have".. I know under this system we need to stay alive so we need money.. Utilize your talents skills and dedication to earn a living .. Just don't live for money or live for the reputation that it is what made you...And I think more now than ever, the saddest thing to see is the fact that Women dominate this topic more than men.. Women all day everyday praise money.. When that happens the condition of the social structure is deteriorating .. Money is not the world.. But nobody wana hear that shit tho.. #chrisdread

Fast money can make a man feel he's a God.. He thinks his friends are real friends .. He thinks Lovers are real Lovers..Fast money can make others blind towards him.. When once nobody even payed that person any mind, Now all of a sudden he can become a Sex Symbol and a charmer.. Now this man, so desperate for love and acceptance, is willing to do anything to maintain this persona..  He doesn't stop, he keeps going because the money is like a drug now.. "I have to have it because it's the only time I feel good,the only time I feel alive" But all drugs have Side affects .. Just like the issues money brings ..

And ask yourself .. The people that surround you, that seem to love you now... Where were they the other day when you had nothing ?why are they here now? If I was to lose this fortunate state of financial comfort,will they stick around ? Is this real love I'm feeling or am I paying for it everyday ? 

Ask yourself.. 

#chrisdread 

The word Talent comes from the Latin word "Talentum" which means "Sum Of Money" think about that .. Let it sink in.

We are supposed to earn a living from our talents and nothing more ..Wow words have so much mysterious components to it.. #chrisdread 

One huge major difference between men and women is that, Men love to be used for sex and women are extremely offended by it.. Something we clearly do to both of eachother .. Let's examine the Bias that's always convenient for "Some" of these hypocritical ass women..

A girl says to a guy "We can kick it, as long as you make time to give me that Dick when I want it im good" Now right away this is exciting for a man .. First of all he can have sex with her all he wants without the idea that it's Gona interfere with the "friendship", he's getting pleasure wile giving pleasure and it's a major ego boost because out of all the men she chose to fuck her brains out casually, she chose him  which means she likes his sex .. 

    Now on the others hand ..you as the guy can have sex with a woman knowing she loves it just as much as you do, but u can't go into it telling her "hey, I just want to call you when I want some pussy and that's really it" something happens inside when a woman knows that he's openly using me for sex ... But when a woman openly uses a man for sex, she's not guilty, she not shame, and she knows exactly  what time after work and what day she wants you .. But to go into the situation as a man telling a woman  "your only Use for me is sex" it really shakes a woman up inside .. 

So I ask .. Why is it ok for women to use men for sex but when it's time for us to use women for sex it is looked at in a decrepit manner . That's why men are lying about it and becoming yall boyfriends for s month just to fuck your ....Now he's a dog .. So does this make a woman a B*****.. A dog in heat? Why do we as men feel no harm in people knowing we had sex with a lot of women but women live most of their lives hiding this sexual endeavors 

    Which woman can actually admit their a Hoe?? Which women can admit they used to be one?  Men don't hide this so why do women? How many women had a train ran on them ???cuz I know sooooo many that did ... We all do .  Over 5,000 friends I have on fb and many of u are quite active in commenting so let's hear it. ?? Who's woman enough to express her sexuality and admit to being, what yall always been .... ALOT LIKE MEN..  It's time to have the conversation .. We don't have the dialog that's why it's so awkward for yall to live comfortable sexually and try to hide what you did.. Then when u meet the perfect guy u think deleting ya IG or FB for a year erases the HOE AWAY .. No it doesn't we never forget .. Then when ya amazing boyfriend finds out u was a HOE, Now he has to leave u.. You can't burry it .. Raise ya hand HIGH AND SAY.. YES I WAS A HOE but I'm not any more!! Don't be ashamed .. #chrisdread

Woman are not generally raised to be outward and forward with men... So when a woman's Compliments you or approaches you or even tells you how much she wants you before you can even say anything .. I think it's extremely charming .. Even if u may not be attracted to certain ones the in the same way... It's still such a flattering thing .. 

  Men spend much of their time complimenting women and personally I don't think men revive as much gratitude for it as women get shown ... But shot out to all the ladies that know the difference between compliments and thirst... #chrisdread  

 The most Significant start to something beautiful between a man and a woman is .... The first kiss.

She knows something right at that moment.

#chrisdread

Did u know a man knows just from you walking by him in the street if your poompoom is good or not and if you'll treat him right ...

 Men have more incredible intuition than we get credit for .. But we know a lot just by passing by and that air blowing her perfume right in ya nose .. We know the smell of a wife .. #chrisdread

Fellas .. You know how to tell your a good man in this day in age....

   Just look at your woman or women in your life.. And no matter if your at your  your Strongest Or your Weakest .. To her, To them.. Your still the Strongest .. Their belief in you hasn't shifted, they still look to you for protection, insight and approval... They still wait on your instruction and still treasure your advice.. They still look to you to make them smile and laugh and please them..  .. Because when a man falls down in the "Material World" doesn't mean he isn't standing in the "Real World" it's just so simple to choose another guy, one who seems better on paper, but somehow her foot is rooted in your soul .....And with all this pain and tyranny in a mans life that a woman will never fully understand ...the one thing she does understand is "I'm not going anywhere" "I believe in him" whether friend, family ,Lover or wife, she believed in something ..

          And this is how you know a good woman. Just don't make trying to love you,too stressful for her. It has to make sense. Once it makes sense your dream is their dream .. That's just how they feel about us. A life together is better than a life apart.. 

#chrisdread 

When I'm attracted to you im full of compliments ...that's me trying to let you know your adored and admired and because of that, you have my attention.. Ultimately you deserve that if I can't even keep my mouth shut about how sexy I find you..

His compliments help you educate yourself on where ya charisma stands as a woman .. He confirms all your ideas and all the effort you put out in being your best. Listen to them . #chrisdread

Death is a very personal, private thing to me.... It seems like death has become a public charade where people expose too much personal content between them and the person that perished .. I respect the dead in such a way, that I have so much respect for the REAL mourners .. The people closest to them who will be facing darkness long after most forget the fallen and move on with their life and their day . So I don't medal in the business of someone I wasn't close to.. Or get so involved in their passing that I'm posting pics and showing up places I have no business being.. I'd be too self conscious of the people who were REALLY close to the person saying" wtf is he doing here, they wasn't even that close" .. Death is not an event .. It's  the saddest thing to the living .. So to all the fallen may your spirit cross over to the father so that you will be placed here again and again with a different agenda .. And to the living families and  REAL CLOSE friends that have to live with the void in their heart that 90percent of the people who was suddenly  so close to your loved one,won't ever experience, may your pain heal with pace and grace.. Take you time my friends there's no rush .. Remember them always .. I just hate the way death is "Sometimes" a public display .. It's so hard to face not being able to see someone again .. It should be treated with more poise, more class and respect .. I hate people to ask me..  Did you go? Are u going? What u wearing? And I'm like.... To the funeral? Are u serious ? It's a joke to some people .. Smh.. Then they say I just want to pay my respect .. No!!! Respect is minding Ya business and leaving the business of families and real close friends of the fallen to themselves .. I used to move dead bodies and  had to put them in a freezer moments after their death .. And watch families come identify their bodies .. You know pain?? Shit is not a joke yo..

As a man .. It's good to see a woman end up with a good man .. So he can finally attempt to let her go .. Men never let go of their old lovers... EVER!!! It's not our ethic to do so ...Especially when shit was real. We always wana comfort and make sure she's ok without you .. That's why men always fucking shit up with their new lovers cuz they can't let go of the old ones ....Especially when shit was real ... And even tho something felt real doesn't mean it's going to last .. But it prolly didn't last with that old lover cuz like I said, he prolly didn't let go of the e older lovers prior to her... Hence the cycle.. So I understand why women are so stern with certain men when it's over ... Unfollow, delete , blocked... Straight cold shit.. Cuz she really is trying with the new guy..  She wana post pics with then nigga and shit and act they all happy and either don't want you to see or really really wants u to see ... But u can alway tell when he didnt amount to u when after 7 1/2 weeks go by she hit u with that text "Hey you".. Then u like uhhhhh huh!! You miss daddy now bitch !!! 😕😕😂😂 ahhhh man I'm funny idc.. #chrisdread