If she try to see you when she got that Period..  If she means something to you,It's a test you better pass..lol.. Ladies, u ever had plans all day to see a nigga and right b4 it's time to come over u finally tell him u have ya period and suddenly he don't text back or his plans change😭😭😭😭😭or u actually go over there and he acting all sexy at first and then next thing u know AftA u tell him u have ya period he all quiet.. Lolol😭😭dirty fucking trick to pull on a nigha.. Especially if y'all have good sex or he's eager for u..and even funnier, the ladies who when they have they period they either don't call u or just pretty much stay occupied doing other things till it's over then they know u again, or she may straight tell u "I have my period so I'm not coming there cuz if I wana have sex I can't" lolol .. And y'all say men is all about sex.... Lolol I love y'all man @chrisdread

TAKE ME OUT VS I WANA COME OVER

TAKE ME OUT VS I WANA COME OVER

Let's just be honest .. And this is to Women tht this Applies to .. No outside opinion needed.. But a lot of women would see a certain guy and know off the back that all she wants is sex...this doesn't make her a hoe, it doesn't make her fast... This makes her a woman.. But here's the thing ..certain women face a moment where they wana fuck but rather not be looked at wrong so they put the guy that they're targeting in the "GAME" the "you gota take me out first" kinda shit. Now if this man knows and can sense tht all you want is sex but u just want him to take u out a couple times so the approach of what you really want from him is hidden .. Then it's obvious he may not wana even put himself through the dating game .. But a woman would make him feel guilty about that ANYWAY knowing he right .. And it's funny how some men get put through this and end up having to go on a series of dates, yet once she's ready to have sex with u they never wana go out ever again.. Where they wana be and where they are content is right in a mans Bed.. So all this Bias about all men want women to do is come to the crib... Fuck outa here .. Cuz a lot of women is perfectly satisfied and happy to be there .. And to the women who this DOES NOT apply to.. If u only open up to a man for the point of getting to know him to build something, maybe a potential relationship by going on date if public setting , do ya thing, but for every man that offered to entertain u in his home it's cuz he knows dozens of women who loved the idea of a private intimate setting in the home and will have OTHER NIGGAZ TAKE THEM OUT.. But rather be with one particular man alone inside away from everything .. And that does not make her less of a woman either ... I am all for both... The take me out to get to know me better and the ..get a bottle of wine and a movie and let's stay in...  But one shouldn't knock  the next .. Cuz not every women is into dating and not every man is trying to fuck u just becuZ he entertains u well in his house or urs... Cuz trust me .. I think I met just as much women who wants to be taken out first and often as  much as the ones who rather be in the privacy of ur care and both can be classy mature career women and both can be the opposite ...perspective is the judge of this situation .. It's how u look at things, and how u conduct ur life and how u feel comfortable ..@chrisdread

It's hard to explain from the outside looking ....but I realize that it obvious why no one last now a days... You meet someone and despite how amazing or how genuine your interactions is with the person... Let 1 insignificant person say something about that person you involved with and it's down hill from there.. Rumors, we listen to them to much.. Gossip, we chat too much.. Never questioning the motive behind why someone is saying what they saying we just run with it..we dont even consider that the person that telling u stuff about the person u dealing with can either be someone that wants them and Madd u have them or someone that don't even know who that person really is yet they're talking, and we believe what people say.. You cant expect to be dealing with a gorgeous man or woman or a popular or successful person and not expect them to have a past .. But why don't we consider how happy y'all are now? Now u acting shady towards someone tht really likes u and they don't even know why or that u heard shit about them.. Smh nasty world to live in man.. @chrisdread

The most Valuable things to us in this World Are, Time and Information ..We misuse the element of Time when involving the most Meaningful things to us, things like Love, Money,Sex,Children,Friends,Family,Careers,Hobbies.. Ect ..We misuse our time and dismantle our Priorities with these things because we lack true Information ..The information as to what life is really about,who we really are,what's the real "Human Potential",what we are here for, and the information of who or what's in control .. The primary Adversary to True Information is Lust and Greed... @chrisdread

Boredom in a relationship is the one area you'd hope never to reach .. It's not always one of those things where you feel if you give it time you can fix it but trying to be fun again.. Once boredom falls into you both, the moment you realize you bored.. It's like a stain on a white shirt .. You'll always remember when it happened and it can always be seen.. Rare cases some people can spice it up before temptation breaks them apart.. But the key is..Don't get bored,ever!!!! .. @chrisdread

Be considerate of one another .. If you see he had a bad day... Make sure the rest of his night is soothing because that's a woman's deepest value,"Comfort".. What ever issue u had with him that you wanted to talk to him about, leave it for tomorrow or some other day.. Let his tension cool down before wanting him to have to deal with something that may cause an argument between you too.. Or when your girl feels like you haven't been spending a lot of substantial time together cuz your either always out or working .. The next available day you have.. Give it to her.. Get out get some air together then come home and cuddle with food and movies.. Try to leave that phone in your pocket.. Check it seldom.. Sometimes if u can give ya woman just 1 day of total concentration.. She can understand giving u a couple days to just be you.. Pay attention to each others needs and spacing.. Be kinder gentle lovers.. Watch your tone of voice.. Some people get very offended when as your lover, you talk to them like you would talk to a nigha in the street.. Lovers need to feel completely opposite from everyone else.. As they should.. @chrisdread

Even in your most Authentic Moments... Even in your most Sincere,Genuine, Raw state.. They still won't believe that's who you really are.. You can either fight all ya life trying to prove who you are.. Or you can have your life all to yourself, leaving it up to them to decide.. Either way it hurts.. But that hurt is bearable .. @chrisdread

Companionship between two people begins AftA they realize that, Yes they're friends,but there's some Hints of Intimacy and sometimes Sexual possibilities there so it's elevates above traditional friendship but doesn't go as far as a Full commitment .. Now to a lot of people this is a completely Blissful situation .. In Order for u to be this type of person, you have to have that mentality that No one truly Belongs to someone else.. But being able to have the love of a friend mixed with the chance that there's pleasure and trust involved is all you need.. Now most people live with "it's Either we together or we not anything at all " if that works for you then cool.. Just make sure you identify the person mode of how they handle these situations ..don't end up with the wrong type @chrisdread

Friends aren't supposed to be lovers .. But some friends are so inlove ... They laugh together, get pissed off together, argue, defend each other, give advice, take advice .. Yet So hard to come to a common term sexually and emotionally .. If they don't have sex then then questions raises.. "Well why aren't u attracted to me" .. if they do have sex then a ton of responsibility follows plus running the risk of loosing that friendship...truth is.. A lot of people complicate friendship in love cuz they think sex equals love and it doesn't.. Sex is not love and love is not sex.. Together it's magic.. But they work very well separately..mastering and maintaining friendship is the main focus in courtship ..everything else is supposed to be a plus .. Sex should never ever be something that  messed up a friendship.. For me it has always enhanced it..that's the most intimate part of someone ...If you don't commit to each other for whatever reason,then as a friend you have a deeper connection to that person than anyone else who hasn't made love to them .. @chrisdread

When my Daughter is home the house is filled with energy and activity .. When she's gone it's so quiet and dim .. U can hear the electricity in the fridge ... I can hear the neighbors move.. I love the energy children provide .. I love them and their lil faces and voices.. I Would love to fill my home with a couple more babies .. I just want them all around me.. Lil dread babies, inquisitive and affectionate babies .. Life is so complete with children .. Nothing I can honestly think of that feels better than being a father or an uncle or Godfather..I love how much they need you and are willing follow your judgment..so aware, so forgiving.. They're the one thing every good person needs to help them crossover into a different level of maturity .. To know a deeper realistic love where lust,greed and selfishness does not exist.. To know what it's like to willing give someone the last bit of food,and it's ok to be hungry for them ..to take a life instantly without thought if ya child is threatened .. That's the kind of love u need to know what life is really feels like.. It will forever be obscure to me how some women day out loud that they don't want kids.. Or how the men who make several of them can disregard them.. And although I know they will never know it.. But they missed the most meaningful part of our existence .. To create a life and love it, watch it Grow,to know some day hopefully far far away that you have to say goodbye and hear them say thank you and repeat all the lessons of life u gave them to teach their kids.. And now ya legacy has begun.. @chrisdread