Humor, Good hygiene and Charm is 3 simple non superficial aspects women really appreciate in men .. Some dudes actually Spend money to substitute for the lack of ... When it comes to more complex non superficial aspects of a man like intellect ... Money can't purchase that .. And that's when u realize what kind of woman you've chose to engage with..  @chrisdread 

Success..... Such a relative term..  Don't not let Environment, Friends or any other outside factors shape your ideas of Success...Human beings are punishing with their useless opinions ..@ chrisdread

With intimacy there always a risk involved.. Learn to open up ur mind to learning that not all risk is harmful..@chrisdread

You be fighting with someone to give you their attention, or just for them to treat u fairly...making sure never to ask for too much b4 you earn the value....but when u finally get tired of of chasing something that always seems to be a step ahead of you and you slow the pace.... This is where they feel it's the best time to chase you and fight for your attention, as if you weren't just doing that same fucking shit... This right here is a "Game".. We've all done it.. Takes time to grow out of the race and to learn to power walk with someone with the same pace...I am also guilty. @chrisdread

When was the last time you was thrown against a wall and kissed so sexually that ya legs have out .?  Or had sex in such and unusual way, that u stared at the ceiling for 2 days straight... Y'all and y'all PG13 sex lives .. Y'all make me sick thinking y'all doing something ... Everday it's only doggy style y'all talking bout ... Doggy style ain't shit!!!!!! That's for teenagers who don't wana look in eachothers face ... Expand and experiment ... Know Yaself to the core ... @chrisdread

Seeing a Real man Loving a woman Is Infectious ...never had the opportunity to see my Dad love a woman or grow up in a household where I observed that... So I had to generate these ideas from the pain of women in my family .. So I more so knew what not to do rather than what to do... That, again, I had to develop on my own over time .. But can you imagine if every young man grew up in a house where a man truly loved his woman ... A place where he witnessed kindness from a man,generosity,Sacrifice, compassion,Compromise and the most important lesson..... Faithfulness.. Something we don't see.. Just the practice and the concentration it takes for a man to abstain from having  sex outside of a relationship... Although many may argue that this is an instinctive nature of men.. It is also something that can be better molded in you as an individual.... As goes for women .. To observe a true Queen at work .....Teaching that Submissiveness is natural when you have an appropriate leader as your lover ... Knowing when to give In and knowing how much punishment is too much... Being able to allow a man to run his household wile you pick up the pieces ... And when he's beaten down, knowing how To encourage him affectionately and truthfully ...never giving false confidence ..  Having the most functional truth system between the two... @chrisdread 

Do you know men silently suffer from broken hearts more than y'all realize it....... And yes of course it can be the result of a woman doing it ....but do you know one of the major reasons .... It's His own addiction.....trying to love several woman at once sincerely believing he can be there for them all but not realizing by loving so many at once you only gain a small portion of each ... Often resulting in each woman slowly but surely slipping away.. That's a painful process for him and only in his maturity he can see how conflicted his addiction made him ... Make no mistake .. Some PEOPLE, not only men have the capacity to take on several lovers.. But the heart is selfish and needs vary... You can't be everywhere at one time .. Saying Good bye is inevitable ... @chrisdread 

It's nothing wrong with loving your people .. Race Pride, For any, is an expected mentality  ...I guess the problem lies in bringing harm to other races,due to this high level of pride and sense the of Entitlement... War within ones own race is a natural process .. In fact Africans owned Slaves long before any white person Got to Africa ..Unfortunately they had,Tactic, And Weapons ...then we were taken under more brutal circumstances....But all races had slaves of the same race.. Something common I guess ..but the brutality black people suffered,and even presently, is something u just can't ignore ... But we endure.. Proud of who I am and what we are .. We are beautiful people with Love for everything and Everyone ...,Sadly,except ourselves ....We have made the transition from facing a deadly advisory ... To still facing that issue in addition to hating each other... We have made it easy to stay defeated .. We have shamed our last known Revolutionary Generation .. We can no longer hold anyone else accountable if we are causing just as much harm to ourselves ...There are some who are awake and aware ...But We can't forget Love...because when black people find peace within themselves .. The whole world will change... @chrisdread