This world is not small..In fact its huge..Some individuals just take up more space than others @chrisdread

I just want an Unusual woman fit for a man who's requires you to just be Yaself .. @chrisdread  

I rather live a average life being myself over a wealthy life lying to myself and everyone else about who I really am...you'll be surprised how much people are willing to lie and be phony just and try to be something their not just to obtain this American dream..  @chrisdread 

Even through a mans eyes... Nothing is more unattractive than an insecure boyfriend... I've always tried hard not to let my woman's shine,consume me or the lust people will naturally have over her force me into jealous rages.. I know because I've delt with jealous insecure women.. It's very frustrating especially when they got you and they have nothing to worry about.. If you respect a person for who they are when you met them there should be no reason you can't handle them after you have them..respect the person you met and don't let your insecurities enable you to try to control them or lower your confidence. @chrisdread

To be a good man... All you have to do is make that decision before hand, not after you hurt her and broke her down...and if you hurt her why try so hard To get back in her life if u know your Gona do it again.. Id leave her alone.. Men know going in a situation what woman he may possibly hurt from what woman he's Gona try and be most responsible with ... Women do to lol... @chrisdread

Wile y'all laying in bed tonight .. There's nothing wrong with looking at eachother and asking "Are you happy with me" "Are you happy with our relationship".. And just incase the answer isn't unequivocally Yes... It's nothing wrong with taking the opportunity to address what YOUR REALLY FEELING .. I think it pays so much to be fair even when the truth may be a little uncomfortable. @chrisdread 

Some Men spend the first half of their life breaking hearts....and the second half trying to put them back together.... When that later stage of maturity develops so does guilt ...@chrisdread 

I'm inspired by other peoples sincerity.. Their will to express themselves fearlessly and to think as individuals.. @chrisdread 

"Sex Appeal"..it's more of an Attitude and Persona thing..

That feeling when u miss that girl!!! U see her finally.. She's walking towards you and she's shorter than you so she wraps her arms around ya neck like your favorite necklace..  Then you take ya hands and Cup her ass and squeeze it so hard and tight that u almost lift her from the ground and she tiptoes to reach ya lips and y'all kiss nearly smashing ya face in hers!!!!!! Ughhh!! I'm at the age where I want that feeling and moment atleast 3/4times a week.. I usually need the other 3/4 days to work/play and miss u all over again.. @chrisdread

Un wanted compliments

Every man knows what it's like when a woman walks by you and she's sooo stunning and has such a powerful presence, and you,without knowing her, just want to compliment her efforts sooo bad with no intention,No ulterior motive.. Just to up lift her and allow her to know you admire her..But you just can't do it.. Because you remembered the last time u attempted to give a woman a compliment and she ignored it or that particular girl just doesn't appear humble.. Your own Queens make you feel tense and uncomfortable.. If your a gentlemen of course.. You have to consider each time a man complimented her and she said thank you  but he took it a step further trying to get her number or something and she turned him down and he cursed her out for it..easy to see how certain woman turn cold After several experiences like that.. But should we expect a woman to focus a lil harder at what kind of man she should ignore vs what kind if gentlemen she should acknowledge ... Like I always say... Truth becomes abstract when perspective comes into play.. We gota be fair tho.. We are all poison and the antidote.. @chrisdread 

"Your Gorgeous"... A term that men say to women that doesn't seem as meaningful as it should anymore.. Just appears a woman only seems responsive to it only if it comes from a man she's chasing... They say Chivalry has died... I'm starting to see that not completely true.. Just woman response to it is a lot different now vs Then.. And men seem to be less inspired to so.. Only a special kind of man and woman lives old fashion in modern times.. Sometimes I have to bite my tongue and think about who I compliment before I do when a sincere compliment should be shown the gratitude it deserves vs a woman thinking men do it with shallow meaning.. Or when some women don't even respond at all.. @but hey, there's always 2 perspectives right.. @chrisdread 

Optimism

Optimism is not just an attitude you acquire wile sitting down and things suddenly get better all on it's own  .. Allow the optimism to generate a work ethic that is relentless, pushing you to do things you normally wouldn't do.. Calculated risk we take to accomplish everything without fear ..@chrisdread

Thank God I grew up in a house where every one hugged and kissed each other constantly.. That's the healthiest way to raise ya kids.. You ever knew someone ya entire life and in being around them wile they were with their family, you could hardly remember them kissing and hugging eachother ??? Different kind of person ..@chrisdread 

Laughter!

Love peace and serenity

Absence teaches the substances of Presence...being apart surely generates this anxiety and often sorrow...but it makes the height of pleasure so much more intense when u come Together...Absence should never be malicious or cruel or done with lies and anger...it should associate with the dedication of goals that improve ur lifestyle of the present and future and should also include ur Leisure, ur personal time.. That everyone needs... To filter and evaluate themselves and the things we experience..   

I wana love a woman traditionally, unconditionally ... But the conditions in me allowed me to see the fictitious notion of u and me...

The shit is... People always talk about "oh I don't judge people" and " I hate judgmental people" when the truth is EVERY SINGLE PERSON ON EARTH IS EXTREMELY JUDGMENTAL.. The only difference is do u express it out loud ... Because we judge everything in our private mind...but the people who mainly over react about someone's opinion or being judged by someone is people who are Ashamed of what they do or people who love to do fucked up or nasty shit and just don't want no one to tell them about they self.. And I get it,fine u wana live ya life doing whatever u want and for no one to Check u on it but don't go around saying u hate judgmental people as if u don't form opinions of ur own towards others .. People who hate judgmental people is some of the most judgmental humans on earth .. Such hypocrisy.. And is the most misunderstood term ever.. I'm not saying that people on earth can't be asshole and over analyze and over critique things for no reason but know the difference when someone is misjudging u from when people judge u based off the fact that u actually doing nonsense with ya self and u need to be told about it.. For instance .. If u have a homegirl that lacked ambition but u knew she was smart and talented but she only fucked with niggaz that have money and love to ride in man car and making sure niggaz took her on trips bought her nice shoes Ect .. If u came to her and told her you notice she fucking men that's not even her taste just so she can have fancy shit and don't wana work for it.. I bet u any amount of money she Gona say "why u judging me" why?? Cuz ur a Hoe!! Ya name is all ova the place and u fcking ugly niggaz with nice cars just so u can feel like u living !!!!shit even men Do this .. People that care about u aren't always Gona turn they back or mind they business if u have value to them ..so knock it off with the phony shit let's keep it real ! @chrisdread

 Make sure you know the Difference Between Procrastination and The "Timing" Of Your Dreams. What is meant to be will draw near all on it's own.. Everything else you want is what u have to physically get up and conquer ..@chrisdread  

"Make sure you out Grow Promiscuity before you call yourself someone's Husband Or Wife" @chrisdread

When u mix Your Lover with Business u learn very fast what's more important to them.... Love or Business ... Smh @chrisdread 

Poem entry

"The simplicity of the sky has always endeared me, Far beyond in comparison of the one my heart belongs to...Riddled with complexity, my nerves fluster trying to communicate my emotions... I love the sound of the flowing stream... My lover is a crashing waterfall.. My touch, a breeze, my lovers touch knocks me to the ground...harder to breath now as love draws near... Loving in fear." @chrisdread 

You have 1 life and some people feel entitled to it all... So let's just say u give them half..... Now the other half that's not theirs is occupied by Family,Friends,Hobbies,Education, Careers,Dreams and Turmoils ... So how is it that people can't identify that You've given them an ENTIRE HALF just for them And now you have to bunch up all of these major factors in your life in one Column,then they have the nerve to give off the energy like you've been Selfish towards them!!!...Not to mention you forgot to make a 3rd chamber for ya self, that time away from everything. Your not owed that suddenly?Then people say things like "when someone's important to you, you'll  make that time ..  Now I'm ambiguous about statements like that..here's the thing.. Showing someone you care about them is not the same as bestowing a particular amount of meaning and time to them.. Then again pay attention to what kind of message your sending that person when you show them you care... Keep in mind .. Just cuz someone doesn't appear to be giving u a lot of their time doesn't mean your meaningless it can just mean that other things are more critical at the moment and it needs extra care.. I'm a believer of Raw communication .. It's important to say the things a person needs to hear in order for them to protect themselves even when it hurts...but even the best communication gets ignored cuz a person is so focused on having you that they only hear what they wana hear ...that's when ya whole "kept it real moment"disappeared... We have to be more responsible with each other the same way we need to be more considerate... Consider the person you've met and the other side of their life and what it entails... Also,be responsible in observing the intent of the person that wants to love you,how much your starting to mean to them and how you can incorporate them into your life in a more balanced manner,making sure not to send mixed signals ......."We are babies, strengthening our legs,trying to walk" @chrisdread 

I've succeeded and I've failed .... It's very easy to tell which Taught me more,which made me stronger.. @chrisdread  

It's funny how people treat you the way that they do based off of some one else's interpretation of you... Not ever once thinking that how that person described you is based off of their Personal experience which exist because of completely different or unknown factors completely separate from the other person... If they don't know you then how could they "know" you... @chrisdread

As women if u don't respect that the majority of men Love from a sexual stand point early on and your always trying NOT to confront his sexual interest.. Then your Gona be running for a long time ..don't be intimidated by it or assume just becuZ he puts his sexuality on front street that this is all he's interested in.. Same way if a woman puts her sexuality on front street don't assume she's easy or promiscuous..because if u treasure sex and your comfortable with it,it will come up early on depending how attracted u are to someone.. I hear a lot of women complained a man talked about sex during the first convo .. But u never ever hear men complain about being annoyed or turned off by women mentioning sex early on.. This is an obvious sign that men enjoy a woman talking about her sexuality not in a trashy way but in a mature honest raw form... But now let's say a man can't seem to talk about anything else besides sex or hinting that that's all he wants.. Only then should u suspect foul play.. But if he not only can talk on things sexually as well as all intellectual areas then there should be no awkward feeling or threat  towards sexual topics .. It's a major part of why anyone is interested in someone .. @chrisdread

"With all the women in this world,she never understood why, her attention is all he wanted... He would always Say to me"Why won't she even look my way,why does she pretend I'm not there" I would tell Him "maybe she's not in a state of clear vision" it didn't bring him much comfort at all... He would explain how much of a gentlemen he is to her and how none of his gestures towards her seem compelling...I told him to remain genuine, if you just remain true to yourself usually things make sense.... Nearly wanting to give up he thought to do the most practical thing a man can do...so in one last kind act of admiration, he simply approaches her with a Rose... She breaks down into tears..... He asked,"Miss why are you crying, I'm just trying to show that I like you".... She says" I've noticed, I've been avoiding you cuz I think u deserve a woman with less of broken heart"Stunned by her remark he says, "all I want then, is a chance to fix it" His name was Hope and her name was Misery. @chrisdread