I think women's thing was to always deny that they meet men on social media or the club.. You know men don't care where they meet em.. once he's attracted to her he's interested ...At least to have the conversation to see if there's more than just what He saw outside ..But I think most people now a days, the way our world is set up it's just where most of the meeting grounds are .. Social media Lounges game nights I mean anything social .. Back in the day in HS if u ask a girl if she has a man and she says yes, but u ask her does he go to ya school 7/10 times you'll get " hell no I don't date guys from my school" or another big thing was , I don't date guys that live on my block .... MAN !!! Let a pretty girl move on the block, a nigga would be bringing over a hose to ask if her mom needed her grass watered lolol.... idk what it is but I'm fascinated by how similar we are but yet such opposition of one another ...We feel the same inside a lot of the times about one another but exhibit different behaviors ... All to end up the same place eventually but have diff time frame and strategies on how we do it... We have the same desires to lie even, but it will never be looked at that way ... Men will always have the reputation of the more frequent liar and cheater .. But is it truly so ... With women out numbering men 7:1.. How are we actually judging these things , and theory and emotion for one another ? Is something in control of it? Is propaganda responsible , media and old stories of broken hearts ?  We are more alike than we think men and women .... Love is easier between u and him or u and her .. We are infected with idealisms and tradition or evolution, or your way or my way or our parents way ..... We are alike because we both wana love , both wana laugh ... Both wana feel safe, both wana feel free ... But we are not free.. Even our turmoil are controlled .. We don't give enough credit to deception ... 

I know countless men who has met a woman that was interested in him but once she figured out he didn't make a lot of money she either lost interest or never let her interest build from jump .. 

   This is wide spread.. And I find it strange that many women still have a hard time admitting this is a real thing .. But you see it all the time and actually hear some honest women talk about it.. "When I was younger I was into all that but now thy I'm older I see how I got nothing from that" Ect .. 

Money never made anything ..The hands the mind and the heart does.. Its a sickness given to us to treat people a certain way based on how much money they make .. Equipped with all the love passion charm charisma intellect wisdom thoughtfulness Ect , people are still being turned down because of their pay grade ..  Yes I even seen men walk away from a woman who pay grade wasn't enough but seldom have I seen that... Most men broke or not will take on a woman that makes him happy whether if she's broke or not.. I think it's more enforced to our women, this money mentality ... y'all wana talk about this or?...... 

Our oppressors shape our society and the way it thinks... Even in love and relationships. Remember we had our own system on how we did things and how we honored one another b4 we were made captives ... One The worst impressions our oppressors gave us was, you having to be in a relationship in order to experience  the best intimate love and not teaching us to fall in love before you decide on being in a relationship with that person..  Or that titles may only be important with a person you chose as your life partner, and that there's different forms of companionship and relationships.. Or not teaching us that we are here to love and not posses. Or that we may have experience less bad relationships and heart ache  in our lives had we just sought love from a person rather than a titles set with boundaries that this person wasn't prepared to live within ... Or having a Lable doesn't exempt you from being deceived and often titles and Lable's is where lies and temptations begin ...  Where we're from we lived very differently and respected love, community and family a very different way ...And we have lost that, living the way they do.. How they do things haven't worked for us. And won't. This is why the black disparity not only includes racism and brutality from police, and discrimination, poverty, but our lives lives are problematic because who we are, we lived in "community" not 1 on 1 relationship set ups and putting money together to pay bills...We had a different way of successfully building empires , raising kids, teaching them, protecting our women and children, there was a different way black women worked together rather than seeing their sisters as competition or threats, there was a different way black men looked at one another and treated each other .. Whether u believe this or not, that is ok...But you can't ignore..Our oppressors way does not work for us..