You'd be surprised how good men really are and how much some of them really respect women... I just wish y'all could hear some of the private conversations they have. .. What men say amongst themselves about women, sometimes are the things they never actually get to say to women .. The way he describes her to his best friend, all his admiration and ideas about her. He may never say..Circumstances have to do with that.. And  of course  some of the simple minded people will say "Well he should just say it then" but sometimes it's deeper than that .. She may have a man, a broken heart , she maybe curving him not knowing his worth.. Then there's those times where the pieces fit for a gorgeous puzzle.. But the fact remains ..... You'd be surprised. #chrisdread

"There's this mode where at times I say to  myself, focus on your love life Chris ... She's waiting for you. Maybe you already met her, or maybe she's just around the bend ... Then other days I'm like "Nah I just wana fight for my people, don't got no time for wifey shit, I don't wana drag her into that depression, that obsession.. She should experience bubbly things in life. Should she really be with someone who's prepared to take the life of a man, take a stand, in this Emotional, Mental, Spiritual war most won't understand ... But who knows maybe she'll be a warrior too .. Shit, maybe she's just like you.. Then there's days where you think, "hey maybe I should be a model citizen. Focus on a 40 HR a week job, aim for good health benefits, how's the 401k plan?, Drive a nice Sedan with mid to low mileage, keep my head low, hide my opinions,play it safe.? Yea, that life sounds like death slow to me.. 

      Truth is I'm living in a world that told us meat was good for us, it made us big and strong because it's Packed with protein and vitamin K, not knowing that was a lie, a world where your water is poisoned, the fruit, veggies are poisoned, the water can kill you or its laced with chemicals that turn men into women and women into men, the air is poisoned with chemicals to onset allergies in us and most of all our children, chemicals that make you violent , things to make us impotent , a world where medication they give us is supposed to make us better but it actually doubles your illness , a world where people will see someone being attacked and will record it b4 the human aspect of them will either help or seek help , a world where the average  human emotion has disintegrated, a place where black men and women are being slaughtered on the media everyday to where it became normality ..  A world where they taught us Jesus was white, where they forced Christianity on us by death but hid our TRUE SPIRITUAL practices from us our knowledge of ourselves and did unthinkable things in slavery ...A world where our children's school books is filled with lies false hope and truth.. A world where you think your leader, your president has a mind of his own not realizing he doesn't and he's controlled by the 1 percent of the wealthiest of us all.. A world where they actually have there focus set on Homosexualizing the black man.. A place where a woman's doctors appointment to get birth control can be suddenly turned into the last day she maybe able to have kids because plan parent hood and them  places were set to annihilate black woman's reproductive system.. A place where whole towns get led poison from the pipes .. A place where Trump may actually be president .. Now how do you express the emotions wile this shit is ACTUALLY HAPPENING.. Most of us can't talk to our parents or elders about it.. They old and stuck in they ways, they were blinded worse than us some of them .. And Christianity got them sucked into that passive lifestyle and they're waiting to meet their Christ .. The elders who were the warriors of their day are far and few In between and voice is clouded out by the nonsense society promotes .. So this middle generation is left to look at our kids and just wonder ...... 

    Now tell me where exactly our focus should be ..  And how your supposed to teach Hope to the youth and the generation to come .. There's a lot of work to do .. And we still worrying about entertainment and what celebrity is doing what.. And how much money this person has and still trying to buy Jordan's .. There won't be any vanity for us if we all slaves again .. We got a lot of work to do . Before it's too late. #chrisdread

As her lover ... Present her with a criteria that will Inspire her creativity. If she loves you, she will look to you for insight and approval. When your woman has the dexterity to master something, Help her Nurture it. She wants her biggest supporter to be her lover. But to be able to be inspired by him simultaneously just magnifies her experience with you.. Nothing more important than being proud of who your with .. When she's illuminating a room full of people and you position yourself in the most insignificant corner of the room where no one will look,and you take a moment to gaze at the blessing you have.. Wile everyone's admiring her and she has their complete attention, you love to watch her melt the crowd with Her division of authenticity. You know every move she delivers because you admire her all day.. You completely understand why they love her because, it is the same things you'd love as well ..  That breathtaking reality that, "she'll be coming home with me.. And she's mines and she only wants me" And I know that for the love she would drop it all .. But often when you love someone, you have to understand their work.. Their passion, you have to agree with it.. And it makes it easier when she can trust you to be the king of her structured world.. Saying, without saying... That this is us. That, because I learn from you everyday, you are such a big part of my success .. "Love and friendship is all about truly Supporting ideas from a sensible compassionate standpoint" #chrisdread  

A woman can kiss you in such a way... That right after, you know all her needs .. 

Heart battered at the sense that nothing will change .. Or the only hopes of change is if somehow, all together all at once, we can feel the exact same feeling. Some element unknow to us, will all get us to agree on one agenda .. I can feel the window closing swiftly ..  We must react now... I can feel the presence of evil breathing down our necks.. The stench on the breath of a demon, the awful smell, not originating from the mouth, but from the belly of this beast... We are running and running only to tire and cramp up... There is a power though. A force of good right on its tale, scratching it's back .. We must be steadfast. 

                     

Some women posses that mentality where, if they're  attractive ,they only want to present themselves as the Drastically Gorgeous or the Overly Sexy type.. That a man sometimes will only look at you as a prize not an investment..After all , no man wants to maintain a woman that's lusted over and gawked at constantly .. It's an emotional and finical liability over time .You have to do it psychologically now, if you want true love and happiness .. Attack the psyche .. The same way men say they want wifey but because some lack charm, charisma, intellect or the personality to really groom a woman into loving and honoring him for who he is "Truly" is , he parades around the money or the car and the false promises... Now she looks at you as a prize not an investment for her future .. So now, We see how it works ..  The only time people are able to do right by you is if they truly love you for you.. Nothing more .. And many of us is out here pretending like we don't know what it takes to be happy in a relationship or to find someone that will be good to you, because we don't like to admit that, at some level we like having fun with people, we subconsciously like the drama and the passion and the scandal ..  It takes a lot of discipline to be in a relationship when your young and actually keep the interest long enough to make it a life long commitment without jumping from person to person .. And many people in many ways will make excuses for that for years before they openly adjust and change their thinking pattern .. Many of us love learning wile we're making mistakes. It makes your stronger and smarter.. But we should go into everything knowing we have the power to have a better love life we just have to say when.. To me it's more about submitting to the timing of the need to commit rather than doing it for someone or because this person makes you feel good... No, am I ready? And is the time right to be ready together ....remember also .. It's not just feeling love for someone .. But are they lovable ? #chrisdread 

When you watch Martin and Gina or Cliff and Clair Huxtable .... It make you want to be in a relationship .... 

     When you have charming, loving , passionate and affectionate loving black couples on TV.. It has an affect on your emotional components and the influence on the need of that sort of relationship.. Not ones relating love, to superficial aspects and drama and cheating and all the nonsense we see on other shows now a days  .. I wish we had more control over what we watch, and what we hear one Television, Radio and Movies.. That's why we must focus now on the economic scheme ... Everything else we do doesn't scratch the surface .. #chrisdread