When your in relationship and your lover needs you,you stop what your doing and tend to their needs .. You don't tell them I'll do it later, or I'll try, or maybe tomorrow, or next week, or I can't or I don't feel like it... Nooooooo, those are things single people say .. Don't you know when u make a promise to commit to someone they are your responsibility?.. That's the idea of a commitment let's not forget ... So keep in mind how selfless or selfish you are before you make the promise ..if you can't bare the weight stay to yourself .. No one told you that you had to be in a relationship .. So take your time and do it if you mean it ..@chrisdread 

It's amazing to hear a woman talk about what she wants in a man when she's hurting or being mistreated ... And it's equally amazing to hear a woman talk about what she wants in a man when she thinks she's being treated "Too good"...In the ideas women share of how bad they've been mistreated it confuses me at times to imagine a man treating you "too good", would do such harm .. When she describes That man that treats her too good, it seems as though all the areas he strives in efficiently in his attentiveness, she somehow desires less of it, prefers more of a challenge... But when she is being treated poorly she desires all the habits of the kind of guy that is "Too good"..She wishes then, for a man to spend a lot of time with her and text her and call her and kiss her all day and buy flowers and candy for no reason.. We need more compassionate and open dialog between Men and women in describing what we observe of one another .. The good, the bad, and the senseless... 

We need to confront these ideas and understand how we can make better sense of how we treat each other because it seems as though, for A lot, not all, but a lot of men and women actually have no clue as to what they really want.. Because not even a man can deny that when we get a women that appears near flawless, somehow our appetite remains open and we definitely know how to ruin a good thing as well .. #ChrisDread

"At times, it's frustrates a man when throughout his life, every time he sees her he knows he's looking at his wife...instead they move on pretending like it never happened..... Like it wasn't the best.." @chrisdread 

When you want her but she don't want to let you in, Not just yet... 

I've always loved to mortality in that .. It's good for a man. 

The only thing that's makes a woman,remain a woman.. is the idea and the pace of how she gives and receives and what she gives in order receive. @chrisdread

You gota ask yaself ..........."Have I ever loved someone where I could easily get jealous over them, And Have I ever loved someone where I never had to feel jealous ? 

 Because for me,the second idea is that pure form of love that I practice .. The kind of love that is flexible yet very very discipline... Don't poison your mind with the idea that In order for a person to love you they should be a little jealous sometimes .... Time with one another will enable you guys to both know what's ok from what's not ok ... To develop the flexibility and also to know what lines never to cross .. I'm making the decision from now,to love with understanding,compassion and compromise .. To accept the person I met with little or no requirements to change .. If my woman dressed sexy before I met her, im not Gona come around and take that comfort away from her.. But if she's my darling, she will consider what's a lil too sexy for a woman that's taken ... If you met a guy and he was constantly in the club, it'd be best to ask yourself personally, "could I deal with a party animal"? But if you love him enough it would be something you'd have accept but it his job to also consider you and what's too much clubbing and somehow alter it a lil bit ... Loving someone is a constant process of understanding and accepting the person infront of you and at the same time that person is supposed to do the same ..  All the wile, you both are making lil adjustments to make the bond more strong .. Just think of each other ... @chrisdread

The Person that can make you feel the most different, Is the most different @chrisdread