"Your living your life so recklessly for so long that everything and everyone around you began to hate you ... And your so arrogant to consider its a conspiracy against you before you can admit maybe you haven't loved the people the way that they deserved to be loved  .. Sort of like The way you want them to  love you .." #chrisdread 

" I remember they was always teasing him because he was always running home to his girl ..,They  used to get on him about how he was so whipped... It was just a joke amongst the fellas. They would always buss his chops....Not all would admit it but, we admired the interest he had in his relationship, especially me being the youngest at the time ...... But there was something about the Rain that would have him sharp on his toes.. The minute it would start to drizzle he would tell us"yo guys I'll catch you later" .. Later down the line I asked him "why every time it starts to rain you run off"? He told me "One of the worst mistakes of my life was leaving my girl at home on a rainy night to be with another..I got caught slipping and I lost her...I couldn't live with that so I fought for her, and I said if she ever took me back that I would never leave her in the rain again... So I'm just upholding my promise" 

         I truly value the ideas and lessons that come from mistakes we made..Men don't always improve after mistakes, sometimes we repeat them .. One sure description of what being a Man is should definitely be "Recognizing mistakes and eliminating the repetition of it.."  #chrisdread 

It's so much beauty and excitement in Not knowing who your going to  end up with later in life ..it makes all your social endeavors so unique and each, so special .. Then you have the ones that are simply amazing and down right irresistible .. Always asking yourself when your together..... "Is it you"... Ironically, I love not knowing .. That's the thing that keeps me youthful ... Every time you look into a persons eyes or kiss their lips .. If only they knew the questions you were asking yaself in your head .. Every single thing about a man and a woman trying to navigate through this would and simultaneously trying to love one another is a charming thing to observe and to be apart of.. I'm grateful for every opportunity.. #chrisdread     

Sex and Love are two Very Different things ... But when you put them together it's Magic ... It's very simple ... Choose your path and know when or who to blend both with ... If you can't cut emotion and enjoy simple pleasures of sex then your not the type to Have Flings, Fuck buddies, Friends with Benefits, Casual Sex Ect Ect.. And anyone who does enjoy the pleasures of sex, it's nothing wrong with it ... Just know who you are and don't confuse yourself and the people you engage .. Because if your someone solely emotionally driven, every time they have sex they're looking to tie emotions and  love into it....Keep in mind not everyone is like that  .. And if your someone not looking for the emotional connection then stay away from the people who are and by communicating what your interest is helps .. Communication is the basis in succeeding in any situation .. If your someone that is looking for love or a relationship don't give yourself sexually to someone who told you they're not interested in that.. Don't think because you gave them your body it will coax them into supporting your emotional needs ... 

    This is a world filled with billions of people, who ever said people are the same ... The number is too large to have the same system of beliefs .. Some people love to fuck whether they're in love or not .. This is no crime .. Some people love to be in heavy strong relationships and only wana have sex with their significant others.. This is no crime .. It's all in fair play .. Some people can do both .. But if your Gona be out here pretending like you don't have the common sense to realize that as adults we know exactly who's into what and we chase the wrong shit anyway, then turn around and blame them for the way we feel in the end .. We need to confront ourselves more when evaluating the results of our dating history .. No one wrote the book on how to use our body's and hearts .. We figure it out along the way ..Sometimes People that Need to be in a relationship all the time criticizes people who can enjoy sex without being in a relationship and people who like to stay single and fuck who they want love to criticize people who love to be in relationships ... But this is what forms such good sociology.. #chrisdread 

She worked hard at being everything she had to be in order to make him happy .. Sadly none of those actions was shown in return ..Sometimes men get comfortable when they know they got a woman in the palm of their hands .. Not because she's docile or weak, but because she's committed and True.. All along everyone is telling him to treat her right.. He knows what he should do but he's busy having fun .. She loved and loved and loved because all she wanted to do was feel loved back, be his number one.. When she finally decided to changed that, when she became fed up, turned off and disgusted with him, he took notice and tried harder. Finally acknowledge her position in his life. Finally set some standard of dedication .. She finally got what she wanted...

But something went terribly wrong .. She was happy at first but then she thought .. "Why did I have to give my blood sweat and tears wile this man gave nothing" why did I have to beg and complain for his time" So now wile she worked so hard to finally get him to love her the way she deserved, when he FINALLY did, It was too late, she realized she lost all respect for him....

So often we see a woman make her exit when she finally gets that man in the palm of her hand.... Do you see the reflection?? Do you see the resemblance.. #chrisdread

When they feel you served your purpose and they think they done with you and ready to deal with someone else.... They don't know you stronger than that, shit like that don't make you fall off, it makes you get more sexier ... 

Let a lil time pass, soon as you post a nice pic and they see how much people is attracted to you, here they go texting you like ... "What you been  up to/ Hey you/Stranger/Just seen ya pic thought I'd say hey/ 😘😘😘/😍😍😍/ I'm passing by ya house you home/ hey it's been a wile but I'm buy the restaurant you like you want something/you still got it I see/ you was in this dream I had just making sure you ok ....Ect ect.... 

#Foh #chrisdread