If we can look at love in our own Reflection rather than in a projection ...we would then understand what living is ... @chrisdread 

I asked her if she knew what being a woman meant ... She,said,no tell me ....... I told her it meant Unconditiinal Love..... Then I asked her does she knows what it means to be a man ... She said no... I told her Hurt, Pain and Confusion with a massive burden to lead .. She was completely silent laying on my chest ..I can feel her heart beating harder and faster... I'm so sorry you don't know what's I've gone through .. And I'm even more sorry you may never know .. @chrisdread 

Every time You start to feel you guys argue... Kiss her on her neck, and whatever you have to say that you know is gona escalate the situation , don't!! As a man sometimes leading is knowing when to walk away.. They want you to be the man still.. Even though they enjoy that position as well .. And whatever you do .. Never say "im Done" 1 lil argument y'all  get into now a days the first thing yall say to eachother is "I'm done"...  We have the shortest attention span in our relationships .. Any form of hard times we ready to run in opposite direction cuz it's so easy to meet someone else .. But no! We can't be done afta only 2 arguments .. Let's work it out, y'all love eachother right? @chrisdread

Porn gave us ideas ....Experience Confirmed them.. True Intimacy showed us love.. 

True details: couple days ago Was around someone I work side by side with ..he was having a conversation with a woman he's seeing .. In the exact moment he puts the phone on speaker she says" i love you sooo much baby, and my Prayers are with you"... now the first feeling I got was sentimental...Something about a woman saying that to you with so much sincerity can make u tingle .. But I thought something may have been wrong because she said my prayers are with you .. He says "love you too baby"So I said out loud "Man you must be doing something right bro that woman sounds in love ...... To my surprise he says "Man I'm bout to leave this bitch alone she's wearing me out, I don't have energy for my wife" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭... Sorry for laughing cuz it's not funny but it was apparent to me that I didn't know him like I thought I did .. He's a Older man really mellow dude.. Family man .. And here's he is expressing to me how this other woman is so good to him that's why he has her In His life and she's so spontaneous .. Does these sexy things that makes him feel young .. They do it anywhere in the car, all over the house,parks... And his wife just doesn't do it anymore .. I asked him, has he tried to let her know that.. He told me his wife knows who he is and what he likes ... And when they met he thought that spark would last forever .. But now tht he's over 50 he realized that everything he did in the prior years led him to the man he is now knowing so much more about life, himself and marriage ..he went along to say marriage should be loyalty and commitment and devotion Ect.. But for how long young blood(he actually said young blood) what happens when your body changes and ya wife body changes and the feeling of her youth evaporates yet your still capable of feeling 20.. Then he said something to me that I'd never forget ..he said " what people never tell you is tht loyalty and devotion also involves learning to turn the other cheek" and my wife made tht decision on her own .. And we have the best friendship and I'm never leaving my baby .. But for fun I discreetly do other things ..  He said something else that will stick with me .., "Chris I will never ever tell u to cheat on ya wife cuz my wife don't even call me a cheater, but it's BETTER TO HUG A WOMAN WITH 2 HANDS RATHER THAN ONE" I sat  on that for 2 days and I finally felt what that last statement meant.. Not having a father around to tell me the dark and the light of mans life, moments like this I take into consideration... But I will try and hug a woman with both my hands rather than one .. Thank you brother for that conversation @chrisdread