When a woman is "Truly" ready to be a good Woman. She will then choose a good man.. Not a hot boy, not a hustler, not he play boy, not the sameeeeee kind of guy she dated year after year that breaks her heart or that's back and forth with his baby mama, back and forth in jail, always out in the club, prefers to be wth his boys Ect Ect .. All the things woman complain about they put up with it cuz , they may not know it, but they ain't ready to be as serious as they can be..
Because to believe that this is the only type of guy that's around is asinine... There's so much real men, good men out here but in order to be with them, you have to be serious and on ya strict behavior in order to match his goodness .. Because for some reason, a good man is rare in so many black women's experiences, that when she actually encounters one it's like meeting a real life XMEN CHARACTER.. And she subconsciously knows like, Damn this nigga like 5 times smarter than me, he's focused, he strong, he powerful, and because of that he demands a great deal of respect and I'm not running away because of him .. I'm curving him because subconsciously I'm not ready to be that serious .. I'm not ready to accept a good man.. I'm not done playing around and dating and being showered with gifts and for some , being a low key being a hoe.. I'm still irresponsible and I'm growing so I'm just gona keep messing with these suckers and keep blaming them for my unhappiness .. And although THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO ALL WOMAN obviously but if I don't say it some decrepit woman is gona come say "well not all woman" like duhhh.. But in retrospect I know this to be a accurate occurrence cuz so many women give the testimony of them finally growing up and reach an altitude that allows u to finally say "hey you know what now I'm ready" y'all no different from men in this matter cuz men do it too .. Men run away from that woman that they know they can't be a playboy with or an asshole so they deal with the women that will take all they shit.. Till he ready to be with a woman who he knows satisfies him .. We out here doing the same shit so don't tell me we don't understand each other ...
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