Saturday, April 16, 2016

Chris Dread :My views on Polygamy and Monogamy

I think possibly from early on promiscuity always existed.. So did commitment. I think that innate desire to commit comes from the perseverance of love between two people. It's strange to me, how in today society we see so many people against polygamy yet more than half of the people in the world who are in a committed relationship is cheating on their lover. This says something very loudly ..  We are a society that believe monogamy is a real human thing, but I feel very different about that now .. At one point especially growing up In a Christian environment, something always felt contradictory about every doctrine of Christianity .. You can bomb buildings and steal and destroy shit, yet just simply repent and it's all goes poof !! Since monogamy is a man made term, does it truly express the true human desire or just a term brought on to express a religious law ... Religious purpose should be for a positive order .. But how were humans living before these man made doctrines .. We know polygamy existed but most of us don't know why, and even more distant, we can't emotionally connect to the idea because this is a "Completely" different time of living ..   
     We don't talk about sex rawly enough .. We have to realize homes and families have been torn because we Refuse to truly confront and confirm what our true sexual desires are from the start and also, as they evolve .. You believe in monogamy ? Why are so many people feeling the complete need to commit, even get married yet can't stop fucking other people .. And this is men and women .. I understand what it is to be in a committed relationship and I understand what it means to be in a polygamist relationship because I've had both experiences IN REAL LIFE ..  Now in today's society I wouldn't be urged to be in a polygamist relationship again only because this society is completely un designed  for it.. So many people are against it door to door it just doesn't feel natural here .. 
   If you can't see past the Sex you can't see far ...  If you don't really sit down and think of the two women involved, or 3 or 4.... If you can't think "hmmm, what would make two beautiful,gorgeous, young, smart women openly share a man, have his babies? Coexist in the home as family or as lovers themselves,Find their own passion for one another.? And I'll tell you this. A lot of men in this position, I assure you are either very powerful or wealthy .. Most men in them times had as much wives and kids his money could accommodate .. And nothing more. Everyone was taken care of.. Some women did it because she had beauty and her family was dirt poor so she married into wealth and bared children .. Or something simple as having many cattle .. We don't understand that now. The world is a very different place .. Especially for a feminist of any young Queen feeling empowered .. Y'all are changing the game for y'all self and thats great to me.. But I just try and digest all ideas.. I try to erase emotion when trying to see a different side of things ..This is a sensitive topic as I said but it's all in how your mind works I don't think anything here can be definitive or condemned #chrisdread

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