Attraction isn't the same as Interest ... Attraction is when a person is stimulated by either ur appearance, your attitude, personality,stature Ect .. Interest is when u wana get to know or Peruse some one your attracted to ......
Now no one likes rejection im sure but men in particular I find get really frazzled by when a woman shows her attraction to him but doesn't show interest .. Because the practicality of men allows us to feel that if ur attracted to me, then why aren't u giving me access to you .. We are sexually driven so attraction to us means access simply because when we attracted to a woman we just let her right in ..Men's first thought isn't always , well maybe she has a boyfriend or maybe she just not trying to be involved with anyone at the moment or heck, maybe she just don't like him like that.. She can be attracted to you but doesn't mean you give her the impulse to say "hmmm I have to have this man in my life" .. A woman is completely designed to be on a defense and we are designed to be offense .. Being entered sexually has to completely change your mentality as far as how u see the sociological Process, Sex and the nature of that decision on who she lets enter her vagina .. Having a penis hanging forward give us a feeling of pursuit, as we are the aggressors ..
Teach these young Queens that's sex is at your discretion and it is your choice and never his.. Your gona make choices sexually that you will learn from whether good or bad and that's your own special story .., but we also have to teach young men to value sexual decisions as well and that charisma comes from letting the process happen naturally.. Being graceful and compassionate about it.. Teach him that his life is very different from hers and his feeling are different.. And she is the one you protect at all cost.. But he should know that attraction is not interest .. It's all a game out here and women are fully equipped to play and control a mans mind .. He needs to be free and independent from that or atleats aware of the difference ..#chrisdread
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