To anyone it applies: Just because I openly judge the things you do that is in fact problematic doesn't mean that I don't love and honor you .. I think the fact that I do love you and honor you is what makes me judge you ...If I didn't I wouldn't create the conversation that enables me to help you question your actions that are in fact harmful... maybe it would be easy to make the connection as far as what I'm judging vs how problematic it is on your life and noticing that nothing that isn't harmful to you I judge ... Also just because someone is judging you doesn't mean it is a negative judgment .. many of times it is a "real" judgment and because what your doing is "really fucked up", is why you think I'm being negative .. Because in describing what I'm judging,your hearing me judge YOU! And maybe for the first time your hearing yourself described and you don't like how it sounds, but your in denial as to why your up set at me for mentioning it to you .... What I'm getting you to do is face what your doing that is harmful to you but it's sucks to you because your in that moment, facing your own mortality .. #chrisdread
Stop being such an asshole all the time, walking around guilty and defensive every time someone tells you about yaself and your only rebuttal is "your so judgmental" That doesn't work on smart people!
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