Chris Dread's Blog

Some women posses that mentality where, if they're  attractive ,they only want to present themselves as the Drastically Gorgeous or the Overly Sexy type.. That a man sometimes will only look at you as a prize not an investment..After all , no man wants to maintain a woman that's lusted over and gawked at constantly .. It's an emotional and finical liability over time .You have to do it psychologically now, if you want true love and happiness .. Attack the psyche .. The same way men say they want wifey but because some lack charm, charisma, intellect or the personality to really groom a woman into loving and honoring him for who he is "Truly" is , he parades around the money or the car and the false promises... Now she looks at you as a prize not an investment for her future .. So now, We see how it works ..  The only time people are able to do right by you is if they truly love you for you.. Nothing more .. And many of us is out here pretending like we don't know what it takes to be happy in a relationship or to find someone that will be good to you, because we don't like to admit that, at some level we like having fun with people, we subconsciously like the drama and the passion and the scandal ..  It takes a lot of discipline to be in a relationship when your young and actually keep the interest long enough to make it a life long commitment without jumping from person to person .. And many people in many ways will make excuses for that for years before they openly adjust and change their thinking pattern .. Many of us love learning wile we're making mistakes. It makes your stronger and smarter.. But we should go into everything knowing we have the power to have a better love life we just have to say when.. To me it's more about submitting to the timing of the need to commit rather than doing it for someone or because this person makes you feel good... No, am I ready? And is the time right to be ready together ....remember also .. It's not just feeling love for someone .. But are they lovable ? #chrisdread