In the history of America, The Lives of Black Couples and the Conditions of Black relationships for lovers, as far as happiness , harmony, unity, strength, communication, security, progress, togetherness, longevity Ect, have always been a battle for us.. And I think we forget that as black people we are under different circumstances and the conditions for us here are a lot different from everyone else.. Nevertheless we persevere.. There's this image of black love that's admirable to any one that can observe it.. It's gorgeous and inspiring .. What we come from, what we must do to fight and stay together under the conditions set against black men and black woman as individuals, to then dare them to try and love one another in a healthy manner, raise children with a healthy mentality, maintain a home and still be happy with the person you come home to everyday .. To me quit frankly it's "fucking amazing"
You see we forget that for hundreds of years the memories of what they did to us is not only reiterated in all the movies, books, documentaries Ect .. But it is placed in our bone marrow.. Coded within us, the horrors that we endured .. The woman of today may not have had white men snatch them from their husbands and raped in front of them wile the husband wasn't even allowed to shed a tear.. What that does to a woman psychologically over time.. Or black male slaves forced to have sex with black woman to make more slaves and disregard the child .. All of this is still with us ... Black people today are trying so hard to love each other and everyday wonder what's wrong with us.. We never had therapy or psychoanalysis.. We didn't get rehabilitated once we was set free .. Who's Gona answer for all this mental turmoil ?? No one, we have to sit here and figure this shit out for ourselves mean wile they still killing us and salving us to death just in a modern fashion .. Every single time they try to shut us down, we keep working .. You can't break black!! But we have to start looking at each other as lovers and really work on reconditioning our thinking as human beings .. But we have to fix and adjust our place in this world first .. We are the most beautiful people and we don't act like it.. We have to open the dialog between one another and realize we are no longer to blame, no more pointing fingers at each other, we are supposed to be on the same side .. The blame game is over .. Let's work! #chrisdread
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