Chris Dread's Blog

A mans love life path is so much different from a woman's ... As a man, Your wife has a face, a look and a voice that your always looking out for .. We visualize her always seeking her in the crowd.. We know when we're getting closer and we can feel when she's drifting away.. We may either know her and don't realize it or she may be floating around somewhere but, nevertheless, she's there.. And she's going through a set of situations that shapes and molds who she is.. So wile you both are growing, Yall have no idea when and how you will find each other but the feeling of that person burns inside you everyday.. A man will fall in love at best 3 times attempting to discover his wife in a particular individual.. You must understand, in order to bestow this position to a woman, she must have great importance, and if you observe her she's usually completely unique from his standard attraction .. Now women are geared to fall in love as much times as her heart and body will permit,looking for that one man.. That man she feels most Protected by and loved by.. When a man makes that decision that he has finally chosen that girl he feels is of wife potential, he becomes aggressive at trying to make her see that she has been chosen and he wants you only .. Sometimes this woman has someone already that YOU KNOW AINT GONA LAST .. Or 85 percent of the time she has been hurt battered and bruised emotionally at this point and can't let in this blessing.. The blessing that she has no idea exist because she's been not only told but shown that men ain't shit from a couple bad seeds .. The problem is you look like every other man to her.. She can't see you, the inner you because that person she sees on the outside represents heartbreak.. But the one in the end of this moment with the broken heart is you .. Because your wife is right here,SHE RIGHT THERE!!!, and she can't see you or hear you.. Now u have to let it go... Then this same women ends up with some nigga that somehow got her to open up and as the man that seen her in the best quality, you know more than her if she's wasting her time with this man she, for some reason, chose over you.. But you can't tell her because it's not your place.. Now all these other women who wants you, you can't see the blessing in that cuz you only what who u want. And who you want you can't always have...we all have to deal with that at some point .. #chrisdread