Chris Dread's Blog

You have 1 life and some people feel entitled to it all... So let's just say u give them half..... Now the other half that's not theirs is occupied by Family,Friends,Hobbies,Education, Careers,Dreams and Turmoils ... So how is it that people can't identify that You've given them an ENTIRE HALF just for them And now you have to bunch up all of these major factors in your life in one Column,then they have the nerve to give off the energy like you've been Selfish towards them!!!...Not to mention you forgot to make a 3rd chamber for ya self, that time away from everything. Your not owed that suddenly?Then people say things like "when someone's important to you, you'll  make that time ..  Now I'm ambiguous about statements like that..here's the thing.. Showing someone you care about them is not the same as bestowing a particular amount of meaning and time to them.. Then again pay attention to what kind of message your sending that person when you show them you care... Keep in mind .. Just cuz someone doesn't appear to be giving u a lot of their time doesn't mean your meaningless it can just mean that other things are more critical at the moment and it needs extra care.. I'm a believer of Raw communication .. It's important to say the things a person needs to hear in order for them to protect themselves even when it hurts...but even the best communication gets ignored cuz a person is so focused on having you that they only hear what they wana hear ...that's when ya whole "kept it real moment"disappeared... We have to be more responsible with each other the same way we need to be more considerate... Consider the person you've met and the other side of their life and what it entails... Also,be responsible in observing the intent of the person that wants to love you,how much your starting to mean to them and how you can incorporate them into your life in a more balanced manner,making sure not to send mixed signals ......."We are babies, strengthening our legs,trying to walk" @chrisdread