Chris Dread's Blog

As my friends and I walk through our early 30s we often talk about and romanticize who our final lover will be, or in smaller term,our wife.. A couple of us wana start on our 2nd or 3rd child..the generation of men I grew with, though lost, some of us are very level headed men.. Not that we are recognized as such, but we know what type of men we are. We share equal love and respect for our mothers... Maybe 8/10 of us ever had much interaction with our dads.. It's like we all know them but don't know them.. So there's was no male model to follow so we had to learn all Charisma from women and a lil innovation of our own..I congratulate my homeboys cuz we came from statistical challenges and still express full respect for women, we don't hurt ad rob innocent people, and we hold ambition very dear to our action ... Still never needed a pat on the back.. We lived aggressively and made mistakes.. We brushed eachother off and a lot of us had to say goodbye to eachother whether to death, dishonor or just a different in path choice .. Either way .. We have all maintained the best head on our shoulders as possible and that has a lot to do with our mothers.. But the biggest choice a man has to make is his wife.. It takes soooooo long to get her right.. Simply cuz so much of u can simply be the woman a man needs .. If I took u in a toy store and it had 1,000 toys there and told u that you can have anyone u want just make sure u only pic ONE... You'd have a hard time choosing too.. But this store called life doesn't close at 8pm... So Fellaz take ya time.. She is the most important decision you will ever have to make.. Cuz remember, the rule is "only one" ... @ chrisdread