I know dudes that's been single for a wile.. Cuz they subconsciously waiting for that girl he was so in love with 3 years ago to break up with her man ... That same girl that like him so much but he just wasn't ready to commit to ..
I mean he knew he loved her but what a woman wouldnt do is call his decision mature..Because she felt rejected it left a bad taste in her mouth .. She would never see his decision as a mature one cuz in the matter of rejection "Truth means less" ... His decision was based on his observation of how ready and willing she was at the time vs how much he wasn't and that's a stand up thing to do cuz it seems like y'all rather a man commit even though u know he don't want to at that time or don't even consider that he just don't see u as his girlfriend, than to just find a way to deal with the difference in what y'all want ..
But now he's in a place where he never forgot how much he liked u and he's better able to manage a relationship especially with the demands of a woman in this day in age and instead of being warm towards how a man has come to grow and what he's prepared to do for u when "he became prepared" this is the opportunity y'all take and try and shit on that same guy and make him feel losing u was the dumbest thing he ever ever did when in fact it was the smartest thing he did cuz it allowed u both time to grow ...Now as a man he can either suck that up and move past what he missed out on , or if fate has it... it will gel again .... but if we just take time to understand personal timing .. This process would be much more harmonious .. #chrisdread
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