You wana see the "mans" image of a wife .. Just look at the average male scenario ... Look at is Wife/Wifey vs his Side Chick/Chicks..
Notice the difference ... His wife mirrors all the characteristics of a life partner.. Loving and kind.. Stability, Nurturer, Supportive, Patient, Understanding, Simple, Pleasing, Affectionate... Ect Ect ... At least that's what a conscious man would want in a wife ..
Now looking at the Woman on the side without being to critical of her .. I mean after all .. She can be a good woman too.. Idk why society always attacks her .. She can be as innocent as ever,with the intention to fully be the best woman she can be with whatever this man has presented to her .. She could have been lied too or fooled by him based on how strong his desire is to obtain her ...Or the side Woman can be very conscious of her decision, she can feel either guilty or not but her intention is to enjoy the moment despite the damage it may cause herself ,him or his wife .. The side woman can be the over sexed , over sexual, lusty kinky kind of woman , targeted particularly to provide the sexual fantasies and to suffice the sexual appetite of some men who don't find total satisfaction in one woman.. Or she can be the shy quiet type where the man finds some sort of sexually attraction to her conservative or innocent nature, Or she may provide him with something deeper that his wife lacks , maybe a spiritual or intellectual connection... Now does this make him a dog? Well make no mistake.. It is completely normal for any human, male or female to desire more than one person sexually .. What makes it bad is when you continue to live that lifestyle after you make a promise of commitment .. So in that case one can say yes..
But, looking at his wife, Notice that type of woman is usually very similar .. The structure of her is usually very universal ..With the conscious man she's usually very neat, safe and secure.. Just that overall prime choice in a good woman .. This says to me..it's not that we don't know what a wife resembles or what the structure of a "good woman" is... It is simply about our sexual desires and having control over them that will determine a healthy relationship experience and or marriage for a man .. Ask yourself.. As a woman , if your man could guarantee he kept his penis in his pants 100 percent of the time and would never cheat on you.. That would cover about over 50 percent confidence you'd have in being happy with this man .. Because if you ask most women who's been hurt or had bad experiences with men it's due to him not being able to keep his penis to himself . Other things like finance and learning from him and Protection and being a good father is all circumstantial.. But what hurts sooo much of our women and breaks hearts stems from cheating .. And for a man, when really asking himself if most of his bad experience in relationships,caused by him was due to other women or him not being faithful and honest with his woman. He would tell you yes ..
So I think to myself .. As I move forward in life I realize, for us , If We conquer sex, We conquer a happier love life .. We have to know best when we are suited to make that eternal promise to a Woman and when we are strong enough to keep it .. Until then, no matter what she say, no matter how much she calls you immature for not settling down(as if that even makes her mature for saying) no matter how much she pressures you and acts like a brat.. No matter how much she attacks your man hood. Stand firm and only commit FOR YOU!! Not for her or for some idea. You have to really want it bro . #chrisdread
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