Chris Dread's Blog

Death is a very personal, private thing to me.... It seems like death has become a public charade where people expose too much personal content between them and the person that perished .. I respect the dead in such a way, that I have so much respect for the REAL mourners .. The people closest to them who will be facing darkness long after most forget the fallen and move on with their life and their day . So I don't medal in the business of someone I wasn't close to.. Or get so involved in their passing that I'm posting pics and showing up places I have no business being.. I'd be too self conscious of the people who were REALLY close to the person saying" wtf is he doing here, they wasn't even that close" .. Death is not an event .. It's  the saddest thing to the living .. So to all the fallen may your spirit cross over to the father so that you will be placed here again and again with a different agenda .. And to the living families and  REAL CLOSE friends that have to live with the void in their heart that 90percent of the people who was suddenly  so close to your loved one,won't ever experience, may your pain heal with pace and grace.. Take you time my friends there's no rush .. Remember them always .. I just hate the way death is "Sometimes" a public display .. It's so hard to face not being able to see someone again .. It should be treated with more poise, more class and respect .. I hate people to ask me..  Did you go? Are u going? What u wearing? And I'm like.... To the funeral? Are u serious ? It's a joke to some people .. Smh.. Then they say I just want to pay my respect .. No!!! Respect is minding Ya business and leaving the business of families and real close friends of the fallen to themselves .. I used to move dead bodies and  had to put them in a freezer moments after their death .. And watch families come identify their bodies .. You know pain?? Shit is not a joke yo..