I read somewhere once that when a woman experience an orgasm with a man she's in love with, it's like "Temporary Insanity" said by Doctors and philosophers .. It is a fact true that some women spend years having sex and don't achieve orgasm until truly, falling in love....And the emotional content of sex has a lot to do with the actual physical pleasure .. Also the spiritual and bodily connection 2 people have .. Now does this mean if you are not in love you don't experience good sex?? Of course not !!some people don't require emotional content to experience good sex.. You have some people that are bound to love .. And some who are bound to sex and or Human connection .. With humans there are layers or classifications of life preference .. We are very sophisticated beings,All living amongst one another and we often attract people from different layers .. That's where u may find a guy not wanting a girlfriend and just may want sex or just a friendship but the girl is all bound to loving him and wanting a relationship .. Or if a girl has sex with a guy all of a sudden he's forcing himself into her life, being overbearing and wanting to make her commit to Him meanwhile she was just having fun trying him out ...a lot of people don't experience love properly because we don't know much about it and never really admit that once you think you've felt it ..we love people in a fixed conditioned sort of manner .. "If you will do, then I will love you" most people don't experience falling in love wile loving themselves and really knowing yourself... If you knew yourself you'd know if your the person bound to love and commitment and wouldn't waste too much time forcing someone to love and commit to you that doesn't live or love the way you do and vice verse .. You can't just want sex and try and charm your concept of living on a person that doesn't just want sex and when shit go wrong we blame eachother ..it's insanity .. But because sex is soooo soothing and so raw and lusting and consoling and revealing and sooo pleasurable .. That becomes their middle grounds .. And we hate to admit that Aswell .. We all want it but to admit that you lose ya edge when it's time to blame someone when shit go bad ....just recognize who you have in front of you from now on and it's ok to love them but don't get stuck in a hole.. Know your boundaries and what you can handle .. And personally I am a man I am still learning, and when I see a woman I am attracted to .. Idc which one she is "the Lover or the Liver" I'm talking to her.. Not saying anything has to happen but I live.. I don't block those things out. @chrisdread.blogspot.com
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