Chris Dread's Blog

A man isn't born with the notion that he has to be a committed Husband.. It is not on his natural instinct... That has to be taught from within the moral of his environment and from inside his home .. A woman is not born with the instinct to be a committed wife and practice Monogamy.. That is taught within the moral of society and within her home... But before she's even taught commitment to a man... She is told that a man is supposed to financially,take care of her which promotes materialism.. Before a boy is shown the importance of devotion and commitment to his wife he is told that financially you are to take care of your wife and family...Now the problem with this is that,what women face is a male generation that feels as long as he provides that he can treat a woman how ever he wants and what's really sad is that a lot of men can't even provide.. This also gives the woman the idea that if he can't provide based on her opinion, then he's is not worth her,and he's to be dropped so she can find another man suitable to suffice her..Society has not yet,stressed how primary "Love" "Devotion" And "Commitment" should be.. And until we realize that its not lack of love that's  breaking families and relationships apart, but the conciseness of money or lack of it is the real reason...Then we will never understand the true meaning Of Love and family .. As a man if you think to Yaself.. What has been the "Woman's" biggest issue in relationships ? I'd think it would be her man not able to stop having sex with other women.. But now a days you see the transition from women more so saying nonsense like "all men Gona cheat just don't let me find out" where they accept that idea.....being satisfied with thinking as long as he can provide I am his number 1, never aiming to be his only ... The biggest issue I see for men is being accepted for who they are rather than what they can provide .. Sooo much good men lay in void simply because they are the overly devoted type or don't come with enough complication.. Their boring or too clingy which confused them because these men listen to your complaints and needs and conformed for you and y'all still don't want them.. Or a man just feeling his love is treated insignificantly because he doesn't have enough money or that  corny word "Swag" to keep your attention .. We gota do better.. @chrisdread