Chris Dread's Blog

Friends aren't supposed to be lovers .. But some friends are so inlove ... They laugh together, get pissed off together, argue, defend each other, give advice, take advice .. Yet So hard to come to a common term sexually and emotionally .. If they don't have sex then then questions raises.. "Well why aren't u attracted to me" .. if they do have sex then a ton of responsibility follows plus running the risk of loosing that friendship...truth is.. A lot of people complicate friendship in love cuz they think sex equals love and it doesn't.. Sex is not love and love is not sex.. Together it's magic.. But they work very well separately..mastering and maintaining friendship is the main focus in courtship ..everything else is supposed to be a plus .. Sex should never ever be something that  messed up a friendship.. For me it has always enhanced it..that's the most intimate part of someone ...If you don't commit to each other for whatever reason,then as a friend you have a deeper connection to that person than anyone else who hasn't made love to them .. @chrisdread